To a topic brought up before, about somebody putting on weight, I'd say dont, I mean unless its for your satisfaction, but then thats hypercritical of me I soppose because people tell me not to lose weight for men, and I always dismiss it and am finding new and (probably above all) stupid ways to do it, all in the name of the opposite love. Attraction goes along way though.. it aint just 'he's fit' or 'shes fit' anymore (well I think for the majority on the forum)? I think its more about how you feel with this person, or how they make you feel? I've been extremely attracted to some pretty dull looking men simply because they made me feel something, they attracted me in more ways than just looks. Yeah looks are nice, who would admit their not? But for the most part, the days of looking for people just cos of their looks are far behind.. I know they are for me? I can say that truthfully.. yeah I have to feel attracted to them but looks arent always the attraction? Guess thats to put the long story above short, but thats just how it works for me. If I saw a skinny/thin guy and wasnt attracted to his body, I would end up attracted to it simply because I was attracted to the whole person. I think it works out that way for the larger people too? Although I have my preferences, size just isnt the most important thing to me, and I dont think it ever has been.

yep...although I couldnt eat a whole one

i guess it depends what type of girl they are (normally the girls who love themself like oh look at me im perfect) hmmm but id say most dont go for fat blokes when i was big sure i had girls who were my friend and liked me but i new it was because i was fat. anyway then when i was like 18 i started going too the gym lost alot of weight only because i came with a friend then i ended up dateing a girl from school but she moved to spain and yea might just turn gay lol because i feel i after stay fit or unwanted its one or the other well its how it is were i live
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I believe that everything that you do bad comes back to you. So everything that I do that\'s bad, I\'m going to suffer from it. But in my mind, I believe what I\'m doing is right. So I feel like I\'m going to heaven.

Being fat is like being surrounded by fog. Many people just stop there looking at something they cannot actually see without asking themselves what could be there behind all that fog. Many atimes they are just scared or just think that might not be worth the effort. They don't stop to think a bit that at the end that could actually be the most wonderful person there is, the one you've been waiting all your life for (but it happens to be fat... so what?). How many times have you dated a really georgeus partner man or woman to even consider them the nicest person in the world and you couldn't possibly think about liking someone else? Now think after how long was the first time you turned your head around to get a glimpse to a really nice someone who happened to pass by and thinking now that's someone i wouldn't mind being with! After some time you'll soon start noticing things you dont like in that perfect being you where so attracted to, why? cause we are all humans no one is perfect, somethings you see at a glance others you notice as time passes by and the only way to keep seeing a person as the most beautiful in the world is by being in love with that person, you wont tire, you wont get bored, and no matter what, that person for you will become more beautiful every day more. So would you fall in love with someone just because they are goodlooking? i bet you don't! - Unfortunately many times "looks" open the door to other people and invite them to get to know you, since only a handfull of individuals are adventurous enough to close their eyes and open their hearts and truly discover a person first from the inside and then from the outside.

damn dude that was deep
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I believe that everything that you do bad comes back to you. So everything that I do that\'s bad, I\'m going to suffer from it. But in my mind, I believe what I\'m doing is right. So I feel like I\'m going to heaven.

Danzo you sound american lmao. Yeah, sometimes i'm glad i'm not thin, because in a way, you can be sure they aint only after your body!

just curious simply me, after the words you spoke.. are you one to go for a fat bird then? lol

jeggea its just a natural thing, people want to know who they are speaking too. Same as you would? They could be talking to ANYBODY of any age? its all the process of getting to know people, to know what they look like, you begin to build a picture up of this person WITH looks and with personality:)