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26.06.2007, 21:22 quote

Anonymous

jessicasarah wrote:
I guess honest eyes are kind eyes.. you can tell alot from a person by their eyes (I think) or maybe its me being silly? But I guess to put it a good way would be like you said.. when people look at you... you get a feeling.. if its a bad one.. they arent for you..if its a good one they could be. Of course there are exceptions though. As for internet dating, I think its a great, quick way to find someone who matches you, I mean, you get to know people abit quicker on the internet and then meeting them than say, a party! And the amount of people you meet, you are sure to find somebody for you! Wow I've just realised how bloody obsessed I've become for wanting to meet the right one for me. Oh god.. another obession haha!


Not sure if I have honest or kind eyes or not..but I a am honest and kind

I used to be a bit paranoid about women commenting on my eye's, then I realised that the women who go on about them are the ones that are turned on by them..although I think my eye's are normal. Razz

Obviously online dating has a big future, but not sure its any easier then meeting women in the pub, especially for me now I'm 50. I am attracted and can attract younger women [in their 20/30's], and not sure I can do that on the net. Not as easy as in real life anyway.

But the problem with Internet dating is you rely totally on honesty, more then in real life IMO. No matter how long you have been chatting on the net, you might still not know the person when you meet them.

 

26.06.2007, 21:31 quote

Anonymous

simplyme there are plenty of woman on here who dont care about weight, take a look at the thread. And nope there wasn't a question..what did you think I was questioning lol? I have looked into some ones eyes and stopped hearing the music lol! But I think both of us were (young to put it nicely) and too shy! I can honestly agree.. when your abit short of dates you start looking to yourself as the problem, I know I would love to lose more weight before meeting somebody/dating somebody new tbh. I lost just under 2 stone in the course of 2 and half weeks (give or take a little) in (obviously) a VERY unhealthy way, and then got to the point where I decided nobody was worth me going through that! So I need to get to the point where I'm happy with myself (no matter what my weight) before I can date someone I think, because otherwise I will just go the same way, again. So I can see where you are coming from about feeling better slimmer, I guess losing weight for that purpose makes you feel relieved, after all, its only your weight that (you think) is causing people not wanting to date you!

 

26.06.2007, 21:45 quote

Anonymous

simplyme79 wrote:
what I mean is that I am an overweight person who at the moment has lost some weight, I cannot eat what ever i like as frequent as I would like cause I would put weight again (which really sucks cause I adore cooking), and as shallow as it might sound being on the lower part of the scale makes me feel somehow better about myself - maybe it's the illusion that I might have more chances of getting a date - lonliness makes some nasty jokes at times. However I know that if I dont make sacrifices I will be heading back to the 19 stones I wieghed 6 months ago which honestly I didn't mind much but if you are single you have to somehow try to be more in line with people's expectations, oh i so hate myself for even writing this but I am trying to be as honest as possible. - If I could find someone who wouldn't mind my weight I would feel free to not stay worrying if I put on weight or not - I mean I would feel more myself rather than trying to be what people perceive as acceptable.

Jessicasarah - I dont need to lie here - I am not even tempted to lie Smile all I need to like in a woman resides from the neck up (face and brains) all the rest is a bonus. I wont say oh i will date anyone who comes along even if I dont like their face cause I dont care about looks, cause I would be lying to myself and them - even if it happened to me that a person who at a first time I really didn't feel attracted to in anyway, and after being friends for a while I realized I was in love with just on the basis of who she was - but that's a different story Very Happy

JS was there a question for me there?


That first paragraph is the story of my life, I am a yo yo dieter and have had to do exactly the same as you. I am overweight at the moment, but I always feel a lot better when I lose it.

Problem is you always put it back on again in the end.

 

27.06.2007, 07:00 quote

Anonymous

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But the problem with Internet dating is you rely totally on honesty, more then in real life IMO. No matter how long you have been chatting on the net, you might still not know the person when you meet them.[/quote]


You could meet a guy/girl in a pub and be dating for weeks and still not know things about them.

 

27.06.2007, 07:21 quote

Anonymous

yep me too jelly tot

 

27.06.2007, 08:09 quote

Anonymous

JS sorry about the question thing i must have misread

Jegea dont give up - take it as a challenge, prove yourself right and everyone else wrong Very Happy

I cannot understand why people can be dishonest online, hah this is the place where you really have nothing to lose Very Happy

 

27.06.2007, 08:11 quote

Anonymous

Well you speak very good english for a non-native speaker!
Smile
xx

 

27.06.2007, 08:20 quote

Anonymous

haha i edited that part of the comment out as it wasn't a good alibi lol but thanks for the comment Razz

 

27.06.2007, 08:21 quote

Anonymous

Razz

 

27.06.2007, 23:19 quote

Anonymous

elitious wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
simplyme79 wrote:
Honest eyes definition: Our eyes are the gateway to our souls


Gawd I have used that statement many a time. It's so true. Eyes are one of the first things that attracts me to someone. I think you can definately tell a lot about someone from their eyes and they way that the react to things


wat if they are wearing sun glasses Embarassed Rolling Eyes


Would you trust the blues brothers? LOL sun glasses are for the sun not for speakng to people

 

28.06.2007, 07:48 quote

Anonymous

ARGHHHHHH That has to be one of my pet hates, speaking to somone with sun glasses on, especially when all you can see is yourself in them.

I do agree with the others who have said that you can tell a lot from people from their eyes.

 

28.06.2007, 08:12 quote

Anonymous

elitious wrote:
then i would say i should just give up. bcoz my eyes makes me look i m bad to the bones Embarassed


Dont worry about it..some women are attracted to men that look baaad Wink

 

01.02.2008, 21:27 quote

Anonymous

Seeing how the UK is now officially an Obese Nation I would say the answer is Yes women do like fat blokes!!??

Personally, give me a man with a bit of meat on his bones any time.
I am not in the least interested in skeletal emos, nor am I attracted to the Arnies of this world. All that OTT muscle, yuck!

But not seriously overweight cuz that just shouts "I dont take care of myself".

 
 
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