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14.06.2007, 07:00 quote

Daspikey
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more than likely the people that like each other are chatting in private getting to know each other before they decide ok im actualy going to date this person..
taking that extra step from friends to something more takes a bit of guts..

 

14.06.2007, 08:46 quote

Anonymous

chikhai wrote:
Best thing about posts like these is that there is always plenty of talking but not a hint of walking.

If we were all so open to larger men and women, and if we're always saying how much we like one another (so thats personality covered to a degree) then how come we're all here posting and not meeting (or even messaging)?

Could it be that maybe one or two of us are being a little economical with the truth? Still, it makes us look better if we say we're not fussy eh?
i still need that spark tho

 

14.06.2007, 11:57 quote

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twistedvoilet wrote:
i still need that spark tho


I've got some top quality spark plugs if you want!
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14.06.2007, 12:44 quote

Daspikey
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I will be honest and say I personally think I would get a better response from women if I lost a 2 stone,

Because im a laugh and fun I usually end up in the nice guy friends zone or as the back up guy and this annoys the hell out of me tbh..

so women prefer built men to chubby men I think

 

14.06.2007, 13:01 quote

loubylou

i dont fancy big men nor overly muscular or built men but hey thats just me....

 

14.06.2007, 13:03 quote

Anonymous

Daspikey wrote:
I will be honest and say I personally think I would get a better response from women if I lost a 2 stone,

Because im a laugh and fun I usually end up in the nice guy friends zone or as the back up guy and this annoys the hell out of me tbh..

so women prefer built men to chubby men I think
but do you think thats confidence tho..

 

14.06.2007, 13:14 quote

scubawallace

Daspikey wrote:
so women prefer built men to chubby men I think


but surely this is in our genes? We're still basically genetically the same as we were 10 thousand years ago when we still lived in caves. Millions of years of evolution have produced women who are attracted to men who can protect and nourish - ie fight off other apes and tigers and hunt wooley mammoths etc, and men who are attracted to women who can both produce and nurture the next generation and also be capable of looking after themselves.

My point is, its all very well in this day and age saying what is good and what is not re looks, shape etc, and to some extent be influenced by the current commercially lead idea of the perfect man or woman, but at the end of the day we're a product of our genes!

My perfect woman would be someone who doesnt starve themselves in the name of a rediculous fashion to be sick - er, size zero, but at the same time can also clamber ofer a few rocks to get to that ideal canoodling spot half-way up the cliff, or maybe do a backwards roll off a dive boat. I can do all these things, easily. Is it wrong that I'm attracted to women who are the same? And not to those who can't or wouldn't?

 

14.06.2007, 13:26 quote

Anonymous

someone mentioned about the caveman thing backalong and i do think in parts it is true..

and as for liking someone who is similar to you, i can understand that.. cos im like that too about certain things

 

14.06.2007, 14:18 quote

Daspikey
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twistedvoilet wrote:
Daspikey wrote:
I will be honest and say I personally think I would get a better response from women if I lost a 2 stone,

Because im a laugh and fun I usually end up in the nice guy friends zone or as the back up guy and this annoys the hell out of me tbh..

so women prefer built men to chubby men I think
but do you think thats confidence tho..


No its not a confidence thing as im a very confidant almost cocky person.
oh im not ugly I know that but im not a don juane.. definately a grade B bloke..

 

14.06.2007, 14:24 quote

Anonymous

Daspikey wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
Daspikey wrote:
I will be honest and say I personally think I would get a better response from women if I lost a 2 stone,

Because im a laugh and fun I usually end up in the nice guy friends zone or as the back up guy and this annoys the hell out of me tbh..

so women prefer built men to chubby men I think
but do you think thats confidence tho..


No its not a confidence thing as im a very confidant almost cocky person.
oh im not ugly I know that but im not a don juane.. definately a grade B bloke..
nothing wrong with being b grade... better then being c grade and you dont wanna be a grade as thats too much preasure to stay up there

 

21.06.2007, 16:42 quote

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MsIbiza wrote:
i dont like skinny fellas, which ireland is FULL of, i like cuddly, rugby look its hard to explain


i know what you mean!!
same as me really I prefer men that are quite big built just not flabby!
theres something about a big bloke that makes u feel safe i think!

 

21.06.2007, 21:22 quote

Anonymous

I prefer larger men whether flabby, muscular or built, just my preference though.

 

22.06.2007, 08:08 quote

Anonymous

chikhai wrote:
Best thing about posts like these is that there is always plenty of talking but not a hint of walking.

If we were all so open to larger men and women, and if we're always saying how much we like one another (so thats personality covered to a degree) then how come we're all here posting and not meeting (or even messaging)?

Could it be that maybe one or two of us are being a little economical with the truth? Still, it makes us look better if we say we're not fussy eh?


I think you'll find most people take it to their private boxes if their is an attraction so it's unlikely we'd get to find out.

 

22.06.2007, 08:17 quote

Daspikey
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jessicasarah wrote:
I prefer larger men whether flabby, muscular or built, just my preference though.


Cool

 

22.06.2007, 08:36 quote

Anonymous

chikhai wrote:
Best thing about posts like these is that there is always plenty of talking but not a hint of walking.

If we were all so open to larger men and women, and if we're always saying how much we like one another (so thats personality covered to a degree) then how come we're all here posting and not meeting (or even messaging)?

Could it be that maybe one or two of us are being a little economical with the truth? Still, it makes us look better if we say we're not fussy eh?


You probably ain't far of the mark there. At the end of they day the best looking men and women get most of the attention in the pubs and night clubs etc imo. Same as on Internet dating sites, no matter what people say.

Although people maybe become a little less fussy as they get older. The fat men and women always get left out when the slow dances start..and the problem is they wont ask each other to dance.

That's the way I see it anyway.

 
 
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