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Home >> Dating >> Do women like fat blokes ??
04.06.2007, 15:42 quote
| FoxyHan wrote: | ||
hey Cherry44, i totally agree! nothing better than a big guy makin u feel safe  my last fella was all big and tattoed ... doesnt it make u feel so safe? unfortunatly, since moving back to derbyshire iv not seen many ... must go a - hunting |
I hope you girls don't take this the wrong way, but you are seemingly big girls, I refer you back to the conversation I had with a friend who was big and was complaining the blokes don't look at her, she admitted if she lost weight and was trim, she would date fit blokes and wouldn't look at fat blokes.
Perhaps you two are happy with being 'cuddly' and would be happy with fat blokes, but what do you actually prefer ??
04.06.2007, 16:04 quote
| Jeggea wrote: | ||||
I hope you girls don't take this the wrong way, but you are seemingly big girls, I refer you back to the conversation I had with a friend who was big and was complaining the blokes don't look at her, she admitted if she lost weight and was trim, she would date fit blokes and wouldn't look at fat blokes. Perhaps you two are happy with being 'cuddly' and would be happy with fat blokes, but what do you actually prefer ?? |
no i dont take it the wrong way coz i have been with all differet sizes of blokes, but,oh bugger how do i put this, my posting skills arent great lol!
ok, when i was younger and a bit smaller than now i never felt quite right with skinny guys, not only did i not like how they felt (just like some guys dont like how skinny girls feel) i felt better with guys who were a bit built but not muscle bound and now i like bigger guys too, i am quite old fashioned in how i think a girl should feel protected by her guy and mostly i feel this way with big guys, and another thing that the safe thing comes from is if i can cuddle up to a guy and get comfy which i cant do so well if the guy was skinny or hard with muscle. I have been slimmer than i am now an di have been bigger and i have always thought the same way. I think this has been for about the last few years. Does that help - i hope so, and ill just say again im not offended at all
Han x
04.06.2007, 16:22 quote
| FoxyHan wrote: | ||||||
no i dont take it the wrong way coz i have been with all differet sizes of blokes, but,oh bugger how do i put this, my posting skills arent great lol! ok, when i was younger and a bit smaller than now i never felt quite right with skinny guys, not only did i not like how they felt (just like some guys dont like how skinny girls feel) i felt better with guys who were a bit built but not muscle bound and now i like bigger guys too, i am quite old fashioned in how i think a girl should feel protected by her guy and mostly i feel this way with big guys, and another thing that the safe thing comes from is if i can cuddle up to a guy and get comfy which i cant do so well if the guy was skinny or hard with muscle. I have been slimmer than i am now an di have been bigger and i have always thought the same way. I think this has been for about the last few years. Does that help - i hope so, and ill just say again im not offended at all Han x |
Can I ask you..are you totally happy with being big ?..there's the old saying inside every big girl, there's a small girl trying to get out. There's a reason I've asked this.
I've known a lot of overweight people that have claimed to be happy, but deep down I know they aren't being honest. Personally I hate it when I'm in my spells of being over weight.
04.06.2007, 17:16 quote
| Jeggea wrote: |
| Can I ask you..are you totally happy with being big ?..there's the old saying inside every big girl, there's a small girl trying to get out. There's a reason I've asked this.
I've known a lot of overweight people that have claimed to be happy, but deep down I know they aren't being honest. Personally I hate it when I'm in my spells of being over weight. |
it varies from day to day ... today i am and have been happy 4 the past few days but a couple of days ago i wasnt. But it doesnt matter what size i am im never cnstantly happy happy and iv been a few different sizes and ... so thats like saying how long is a peice of string. My main problem at the moment is although i dont eat junk food and i watch what i eat im not in a position to get out and exercise because of my leg but once it has healed more and i have learnt to walk again properly i can get back to swimming and working with the horses and stuff. Therefore i have lost a lot of my muscles in my legs and need to get theat back as they were once quite strong. But when im a bit lighter and more toned i like my curves, i would never want to be very thin. The reason i am not always happy with myself is how i have been treated by a number of people in the past. But show me a girl who is completly and utterly at ease with her body and doesnt dislike on elittle bit of herself?
04.06.2007, 17:43 quote
| Jeggea wrote: |
| Can I ask you..are you totally happy with being big ?..there's the old saying inside every big girl, there's a small girl trying to get out. There's a reason I've asked this.
I've known a lot of overweight people that have claimed to be happy, but deep down I know they aren't being honest. Personally I hate it when I'm in my spells of being over weight. |
Hope you don't mind me adding my opinion, but as I've said before, a man's size/shape doesn't bother me having been out with various shaped/sized blokes. The slimmest I've been was a size 10. I'm at my happiest when a size 14/16 (I'm now an 18/20). My own size has never affected how I look at a mans shape/size.
Sorry Jeggea, but it really is time you accepted that there are as many women who aren't shallow as are
04.06.2007, 18:13 quote
| Jeggea wrote: |
| Can I ask you..are you totally happy with being big ?..there's the old saying inside every big girl, there's a small girl trying to get out. There's a reason I've asked this.
I've known a lot of overweight people that have claimed to be happy, but deep down I know they aren't being honest. Personally I hate it when I'm in my spells of being over weight. |
i would acually like to say something about this now, after reading reds reply and my last post again, i dont actually understand how u can think i am unhappy just from my body shape. There are many things that make me unhappy with the way i look, i dont like my hair - whatever i do to it i still hate it, i dont like how my top lip does this funny thing when i smile or the fact that i have to wear glasses as i struggle with contacts and no one ever sees them or if they do they dont notice but i hate how a toe on each foot curls slightly. I also have a history of bouts of depression. So there are many things that i need to chang eto be happy but my no means am i hideous and i have never struggled for blokes and i love areas of me such as my big boobs and my nipped in waist, so dont presume when u havent seen me or met me or know me as thats quite an old fashioned of things. It is also quite small minded. I also feel like i have been belittled and i shouldnt as i am an attractive and intelligent human person. I dont come to cause problems but i am someone who is straight to the point i dont skirt around things, there is no point in doing that.
04.06.2007, 18:19 quote
| redoctober wrote: |
| Hope you don't mind me adding my opinion, but as I've said before, a man's size/shape doesn't bother me having been out with various shaped/sized blokes. The slimmest I've been was a size 10. I'm at my happiest when a size 14/16 (I'm now an 18/20). My own size has never affected how I look at a mans shape/size.
Sorry Jeggea, but it really is time you accepted that there are as many women who aren't shallow as are |
Not sure I'm trying to prove anything Red..just asking some questions and putting forward some experiences, I am very inquisitive. But my opinion is people cant always help who they are attracted to.
04.06.2007, 18:29 quote
| FoxyHan wrote: |
| i would acually like to say something about this now, after reading reds reply and my last post again, i dont actually understand how u can think i am unhappy just from my body shape. There are many things that make me unhappy with the way i look, i dont like my hair - whatever i do to it i still hate it, i dont like how my top lip does this funny thing when i smile or the fact that i have to wear glasses as i struggle with contacts and no one ever sees them or if they do they dont notice but i hate how a toe on each foot curls slightly. I also have a history of bouts of depression. So there are many things that i need to chang eto be happy but my no means am i hideous and i have never struggled for blokes and i love areas of me such as my big boobs and my nipped in waist, so dont presume when u havent seen me or met me or know me as thats quite an old fashioned of things. It is also quite small minded. I also feel like i have been belittled and i shouldnt as i am an attractive and intelligent human person. I dont come to cause problems but i am someone who is straight to the point i dont skirt around things, there is no point in doing that. |
I didn't know if you were happy or not that's why I asked, and I gave my reasons for asking.
04.06.2007, 18:30 quote
As a sort of related thing, I've had a few women say that I need to put on weight. I know some that felt that way deeply enough to not find me attractive. Not that I care, you understand. I think about trying to bulk myself up a bit, and I have tried sometimes because I figured it couldn't do any harm, and sometimes I've felt I'd like to be stronger, but believe it or not it is actually hard work.
08.06.2007, 14:25 quote
| FoxyHan wrote: |
| i would acually like to say something about this now, after reading reds reply and my last post again, i dont actually understand how u can think i am unhappy just from my body shape. There are many things that make me unhappy with the way i look, i dont like my hair - whatever i do to it i still hate it, i dont like how my top lip does this funny thing when i smile or the fact that i have to wear glasses as i struggle with contacts and no one ever sees them or if they do they dont notice but i hate how a toe on each foot curls slightly. I also have a history of bouts of depression. So there are many things that i need to chang eto be happy but my no means am i hideous and i have never struggled for blokes and i love areas of me such as my big boobs and my nipped in waist, so dont presume when u havent seen me or met me or know me as thats quite an old fashioned of things. It is also quite small minded. I also feel like i have been belittled and i shouldnt as i am an attractive and intelligent human person. I dont come to cause problems but i am someone who is straight to the point i dont skirt around things, there is no point in doing that. |
hey mate good for u! i think u seem really positive and thats a great quality to have! who cares what society or some small minded people say we should look like or that we should be miserable being BIG!!
its a well known fact that it takes all sorts, y should we conform to what people think we should be, i am successful in every area of my life did i have to be thin to get that? no!!
i used to be a size 8 always stressing about my weight and what i looked like and how people saw me, then one day i gave up now i enjoy going out for meals and going the pub with my friends i still have the hassle of what other people think but i have the nice things aswell such as a steak instead of salad!!!
y do people think us curvy girls cant be happy until we lose weight???
i love my big boobs, full ass and sculptured waist and in my experience any guy who has enough balls to take on a happy confident girl loves them as much as i do!!!
12.06.2007, 16:47 quote
i completely agree. I am a farm girl born and raised, but I also aint supper skinny. I have freinds who are size fives because of how they eat, but because I choose to be healthy and not do all these dumb fad diets and all that crap I aint no size five. Heck I would rather be who i am happy, healthy and hard working than a skinny little size 5 and crap. I am a fourteen and am happy with who I am.
13.06.2007, 07:01 quote
Im not what you would call a thin bloke.. Im cuddly and thats fine with me.. Ok so I could loose a few lbs get a bit fitter but I dont need to Im comfortable with who I am and I think that is the most important thing no matter your size.
and cherry your waist is lovely 
13.06.2007, 11:10 quote
I'm not overweight but could exercise a bit more.
Let's say I have a body for rugby, not figure skating.
13.06.2007, 12:43 quote
ive dated guys with a bit of meat on them and guys who are all skin and bone..
it doesnt bother me either way
13.06.2007, 16:58 quote
Best thing about posts like these is that there is always plenty of talking but not a hint of walking.
If we were all so open to larger men and women, and if we're always saying how much we like one another (so thats personality covered to a degree) then how come we're all here posting and not meeting (or even messaging)?
Could it be that maybe one or two of us are being a little economical with the truth? Still, it makes us look better if we say we're not fussy eh?
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