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Home >> Dating >> Do women like fat blokes ??
02.06.2007, 10:23 quote
| NIGHTWAVE wrote: | ||||||||||||
thats crap red we're just on about if u flash a wad full of cash in pub club etc. |
Same thing.
02.06.2007, 10:29 quote
| redoctober wrote: | ||||||||||||||
Same thing. |
not at all.if your at bar in a crowded pub/club and u wack a note on bar chances are your get served b4 someone with change.
frankly i dont give a toss what someone earns,if i date someone i'm hardly gonna care about that.attraction and personality come first hun x
02.06.2007, 11:01 quote
| redoctober wrote: | ||||||||||
Not surprising you're both single!  I ALWAYS insist on going halves whatever their earnings, and I'm on Income Support! |
honestly red the last thing i worry about on date is whos gonna pay for whatever feck that,
02.06.2007, 12:53 quote
| redoctober wrote: | ||||||||||
Not surprising you're both single! I ALWAYS insist on going halves whatever their earnings, and I'm on Income Support! |
I was thinking more of first impressions....I suspect there are one or two women more shallow then you red
..and I'm single by choice, when I decide to settle down, if ever, I will and they will be queueing up
ha ha okay.......
03.06.2007, 00:30 quote
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| Personally I think all this 'making me laugh' and personality is rubbish with most women, they still get turned on by looks. |
You're using one example to create a generalisation.
True, it takes more than being funny to create attraction.
The fat funny guy screwed up because all he was doing was saying funny things. When a bloke tries to impress a girl using jokes and that's all he's doing, whatever, he's communicating lower status. The bloke is nothing more than a performing monkey. Women are attracted to people with higer status, not lower status. Humour is important, but to communicate higher status, it has to be used selectively and in a cocky way.
04.06.2007, 06:41 quote
I have absolutely no problem with fat men. I think a belly is a turn on especially if its hairy and the hands are big lol
04.06.2007, 08:02 quote
| samatron wrote: | ||
You're using one example to create a generalisation. True, it takes more than being funny to create attraction. The fat funny guy screwed up because all he was doing was saying funny things. When a bloke tries to impress a girl using jokes and that's all he's doing, whatever, he's communicating lower status. The bloke is nothing more than a performing monkey. Women are attracted to people with higer status, not lower status. Humour is important, but to communicate higher status, it has to be used selectively and in a cocky way. |
I did use one example to create a generalisation, correct. But I think its valid, I'm suspicious of women who say they are attracted to fat comedian's on TV. I suspect most women would stay with them laughing at their jokes, then go off and shag a good looking bloke with a fit body. That's from experience of being a fat bloke and a fit bloke.
Similar probably happens on this board as well
04.06.2007, 08:05 quote
| LadyJ47 wrote: |
| I have absolutely no problem with fat men. I think a belly is a turn on especially if its hairy and the hands are big lol |
ha ha..you'll love me then, I have a fat hairy belly at the moment
04.06.2007, 09:42 quote
| god wrote: |
| Marge Simpsons does. |
She's probably keeping it together for the kids. Not sure many women would stay with Homer Simpson in real life
04.06.2007, 10:24 quote
mmm i love big guys!!
im a curvy girl and i like to feel safe and looked after
i wouldnt disregard smaller guys but im quite old fashioned and i want my guy to be bigger than me
i also love tattoos and strength a bit of rough
04.06.2007, 11:30 quote
Damn some of you guys are really jaded and bitter by the sounds of things..
Sure women find succsessfull men attractive.. allong with fit men.. part of the biological urge to provide the strongest fittest children..
but I think peoples tastes are different some women find big guys attractive. I have a mate who is 6 2 and huge.. hes fat but carries it off and women love him for it.. becuase he has the confidence of a big man..
Women "smell" fear and insecurities what they are really attracted to is power confidence, if this is a hugs wallet nice car and all the symbols that this gives then fair enough.. but subconciously women need to know that they are taken care of or at the very least the bloke can take care of himself and therfore can look after offspring.
sure were evolving past the bioligical into phsycological reasons as wer get further away from our caveman roots..
04.06.2007, 13:46 quote
| Daspikey wrote: |
| Damn some of you guys are really jaded and bitter by the sounds of things.. |
I live in Chav city centre. I am surrounded by an amazing amount of thick, uncaring, selfish people, who could not give a crap about anything.
I speak as I find. Most of the girls my age, in Walsall, are thick, annoying cretins, only interested in 'fit guys' and Big Brother. They think Celebrity = Talent, and Fat = Worthless. They think your value as a human being is rated by how well known you are, how much money you have, and how attractive you are.
If I'm jaded its because over the last few years I've seen the state of society to come, and it isn't pretty.
*Rant over*
04.06.2007, 13:54 quote
| Baggiebhoy wrote: | ||
I live in Chav city centre. I am surrounded by an amazing amount of thick, uncaring, selfish people, who could not give a crap about anything. I speak as I find. Most of the girls my age, in Walsall, are thick, annoying cretins, only interested in 'fit guys' and Big Brother. They think Celebrity = Talent, and Fat = Worthless. They think your value as a human being is rated by how well known you are, how much money you have, and how attractive you are. If I'm jaded its because over the last few years I've seen the state of society to come, and it isn't pretty. *Rant over* |
Chav centre? I come from the town that gave the world burberry... shudders...
to quote the monty python boys.. alwasy look on the bright side of life...
Yes there aer some complete bitches out there but as proved by the ladies here there are some very nice lovely ladies just waiting to be loved.. only problem is they are as scared of getting hurt as the rest of us.. Its time we all just learned to open up and trust.. its well worth the risk in my oppinion
04.06.2007, 15:18 quote
| cherry44 wrote: |
| mmm i love big guys!!
im a curvy girl and i like to feel safe and looked after i wouldnt disregard smaller guys but im quite old fashioned and i want my guy to be bigger than me i also love tattoos and strength a bit of rough |
hey Cherry44, i totally agree! nothing better than a big guy makin u feel safe
my last fella was all big and tattoed ... doesnt it make u feel so safe? unfortunatly, since moving back to derbyshire iv not seen many ... must go a - hunting
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