Hi everyone!

I have been on this site awhile and am having problems getting reply's from women!! i know its kinda sad! lol, but where am i going wrong? im always nice and try to crack a joke, to throw some humor into a message! sometimes spend half hour thinking of what to write but i hardly get replys!!!

just a question for the ladies, what do u look for in a first message?...what would get u hooked!? ive run out of ideas here!!!

or does the real problem lie with the fact that girls just get so much mail from guys that they cant be bothered to reply and look at all the messages???

i hope thats true!!! lol

anyway to all you girls out ther just wanna let u know that im the most trustworthy, kind genuine guy there is!! <--god i sound like im selling myself on ebay there!! ahem! lol

take care

byeeeeeeeeee
mus x

put a picture on your profile it usually helps.

Also why do you have to think for like 30mins? Maybe doing it on the spur will be better. Try it, takes me like 2mins to write a message hehe

2 mins! wow ok il try that! i do get replys but it seems like they are not really interested in getting 2 close with someone! lol maybe its me! i need to change my aftershave! ahem!

Maybe you are trying to hard.

Read their profiles, and maybe say something about it, too. And i don't mean 'nice profile' or whatever. I mean pick something out that you may have in common, and go from there.

Don't think about writing a message for too long, as SexyDan said.

And you should change your aftershave if you use Lynx..

i cant understand why you dont get replys. Your profile seems nice. Maybe your going after the wrong sort? The only reason i dont reply to some people if there rude or are being sleezy, or are just to far away. I norm say hi back though.

aww thanks! for your kind words!

im clueless! lol

gonna get rid of my lynz! lol...in search for something nice!

how about old spice? lol

hehe bye!!!

I get a fair few replys, and I just get to the point

"Hi,"

"How are you?"

"What you been up to?"

etc etc

If something relates to something in my head, I'll make a comment.

You say you use jokes/humour. Perhaps that's what's not working?

Well handsome74
I think your name fits you, kinda george clooney look, anyway i looked at your profile and i do not see anything there wrong, too bad we are so far apart and of course the age issue, might be a problem for some, hehe. from the ever crazy american vixen, aluria

aww thanks for that aluria! feel better now! lol

it could be my humor! i need too get bak to the drawing board and work on it! but if i never used humer i would be like...hi hello how are you ermm...ok goodbye! i always use humor, as i think it kinda breaks the ice and make her smile i think , well maybe in my case it makes her cry! hmmmm

i bet if i were a girl i would have bag loads of mail! lol, now theres a thought!.....must book my appointment for a boob job asap! lol ahem!

see, i think you are funny and that is a good place to be, if a good sense of humor was not in the picture then he would be out for me. if someone cant life at themselves and with others then they are a bore, which does not seem to be in your case.
always the mischievious alura

made me smile too ,,, so u cant be doing too much wrong x

well i hafta say you would be the type i normally go for. dark and good looking. and oh my god you have a personality. that is so understated these days. guys tend to tell me they are brill in bed and have a massive monster between thier legs. which to be honest doesnt really tempt me to write back. i like a man who can make me laugh.
ah damn the pond seperating us. heyyyy i could be a mail order bride!! hehe.

aww u aint almost perfect u ARE perfect!!! yeh your very lovely 2! hehe

so whats a mail order bride? and can u order them in argos? hehe?