Never mind the width feel the quality!!!!!!!

LOL well I dont have any width being a size 8

Nice!!!!!!!! all the best things in life come in small packages LOL

well anything smaller than me would be anorexic lol

At least i can carry you across the room!!!!!!!!!!

please get back on topic or i will have to lock this
thank you

Errrrrrrrrrr across which room to where?

We just got told off!!!! I'd best go and read your profile!!!!!! LOL

Ooooops sorry Danni

I sometimes wonder if people actually read their own profiles....

People's behaviour doesnt always match!

But hey, when did what us humans say and do actually tie in anyway!!?

Wish I got more offers of casual love....

It is very hard to describe yourself in profile tho, we all have various personailty straits. I can be lively, witty, firty and very much the extrovert and fun loving girl. On the other side tho I am intelligent, well read/educated and enjoy a serious conversation and enjoy the quiet side of life too. So many different aspects cant be put into a simple profile, but even so if a guy simply chooses to look at a photo and not read the profile you have to admit an email from a complete stranger saying 'hi, fancy meeting up for no strings fun' ( it can be more explicit) isnt really the best approach. If I was in a club and a guy came up to me and said it to my face he would wear his pint, but then a guy wouldnt be brave enough to say that face to face anyway.

well I get it exactly that from guys in clubs somtimes.... and I take it as a compliment...

there is a Bhuddist saying "to take offense is as bad as to give offence..."

I do very much agree though.... its a shame that people are clogining up the system, for the people (me included), looking for friendships and romance too.... makes it a little boring...

Lol well you said you wouldnt mind offers of casual love, you didnt say that it had to be female

To be honest tho the baseline approach doesnt work for me, I have morals and I value myself and it can take ages to suss out the genuine people who really are looking for friendship and maybe romance instead of using this is light/casual entertainment

heee heee....

i think none of us are particularly honest so it does take a while to muddle thougt things.... Just think about Freud's very popular ideas about methods of denial....

I had a friend who kept telling me that she always ended up with guys that just wanted a short term fling.... and was complaining furiously about it...

I asked he if she ever asked them what their intentions were, and she said no....

who was the dishonest one??

I remember going out with a compulsive liar and complaining about it... But hey I was staying in the relationship and therefore part of it too....

who was the dishonest one??

I try to be as honest as possible because I am a strong believer in the idea you can't fool an honest person...

I think you are right about us not always being honest, but I wouldnt define that as lying in particular, its just an evasion of the truth. That boils down to trust and as you build a relationship you open up more and learn more, but does anyone tell people about their own negatives straight away? If we did then we would all avoid each other so we play on the good bits

My favorite line is 'be true to yourself' if you can do that then you can then be true to others. I just find it a damn sight easier to be honest as then you cant forget whats been said, the old adage is true 'give anyone enough rope and they will hang themselves' and quite correct it is, its just unfortunate that invariably someone will get hurt along the way