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14.06.2006, 08:33 quote

scotincornwall

CheekyBel makes a very good point.

I think we can all agree that some men like curvy women and some men like slim women.

But here's where Bel's point hits home: confidence and belief in your own sexiness counts for LOADS. If a woman BELIEVES she is sexy, that shines through, and men notice and unconsciously want to know more.

If a woman isn't sure that she's sexy or doubts that she is sexy, then that shines through too, and it's not very attractive.

Believe in yourself and others do, too.

 
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14.06.2006, 08:35 quote

PrincessTamz
PrincessTamz Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 470 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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Being a curvy lady myself I can totally identify with that! Very Happy

 
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14.06.2006, 09:34 quote

Anonymous

Im a skinny girl and its not true men like all shapes and sizes the best thing is to be comftable in your own skin no matter what shape or size you are.

 
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14.06.2006, 09:45 quote

Riko
Joined: 12 Jun 2006 Posts: 24 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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fairy9 wrote:
Im a skinny girl and its not true men like all shapes and sizes the best thing is to be comftable in your own skin no matter what shape or size you are.

Definately, and i think its wrong that some of you where stereotyping men because they like women a certain way. if they didnt like different things then there would be millions of lonely people out there.

 
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14.06.2006, 10:11 quote

scotincornwall

Riko wrote:
fairy9 wrote:
Im a skinny girl and its not true men like all shapes and sizes the best thing is to be comftable in your own skin no matter what shape or size you are.

Definately, and i think its wrong that some of you where stereotyping men because they like women a certain way. if they didnt like different things then there would be millions of lonely people out there.


Riko - there ARE millions of lonely people out there!

 
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14.06.2006, 10:16 quote

Riko
Joined: 12 Jun 2006 Posts: 24 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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ok maybe i should put it this way, there would be few happy people out there in a relationship if we like the exact same thing.

 
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14.06.2006, 14:05 quote

killerqueen
killerqueen Joined: 13 Jun 2006 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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im curvy and i hve been told that men prefere curvy girls 2 skinny girls so im susprised by that

 
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14.06.2006, 18:36 quote

Anonymous

Riko wrote:
i dont find it why you would have to react so much to these posts like that.


Perhaps because I have strong views on these women who seem to be under the impression that ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS when people like me put effort into trying to be atleast a half-decent person. There's so many people on this forum, and even in the community that don't give people a chance sometimes. It'd be so easy for me to go message every girl on this community with "ASL OMG C2C?" But I don't because I for one "And I know there are many others" am a male not seeking for a quick shag over a Cable Modem. I'm a ugly, mis-understood teenager looking for some decent conversation, and maybe some security, even if it means trading good looks for these qualities, it's a sacrafice I don't particularly care about. These sorts of discussions make me reach for the knife, the effort I put into trying to simply be who I am is wasted, I'm a waste, I'm a waste of space and oxygen.

But don't you even find it funny how every single one of these threads are started by some female, and they ALWAYS go on to the subject about how every male is some sort of blood-sucking love-hunting pervert. And isn't it funny how there doesn't seem to be many, if any threads relating to "Why do ALL women screw men over?" or "Why do women go for looks?" We're stranded in a post-modern society, unfortunatly, and because of what other males do, myself and others are judged and labelled because of it.

I'm an overweight 18 year old male with the most horrid face in the world, my body-shape is appauling, even when I do something about it "It's 'improved' from what it once was". And yet if I talk to a female, I'm seen as a complete pervert, where as 'x' next to me, who's slimmer, somehow manages to do that messy thing with his hair and talks about nothing other than love gets what he wants in life. Karma's fucked up, and it's raping me from behind.

Challange my views, delete my post, hate me and ban me from the discussion board, do what you like, but remember that I'm voicing my own opinion, something every user is granted here. And I'm telling it how it is, in my world.

Now if you excuse me, I'm off to try taking my life with a pair of plastic scissors, it's about the most productive thing I can do.

 
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14.06.2006, 18:52 quote

maryofdungloe
maryofdungloe Joined: 12 Jul 2005 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, England, Nottinghamshire
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yeah i agree to the previous post, men always like the stick thin girls, dunno why cos we are all the same inside.

no one gives me a 2nd look cos im a size 20/24 and 5'3"

 
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14.06.2006, 19:48 quote

ligthmeup
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ScotInCornwall wrote:


Riko - there ARE millions of lonely people out there!


LOL!

 
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14.06.2006, 19:58 quote

Anonymous

maryofdungloe wrote:
yeah i agree to the previous post, men always like the stick thin girls, dunno why cos we are all the same inside.

no one gives me a 2nd look cos im a size 20/24 and 5'3"


That wasn't the point I was trying to put across, but ok, more wasted time.

 
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14.06.2006, 20:01 quote

maryofdungloe
maryofdungloe Joined: 12 Jul 2005 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, England, Nottinghamshire
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mike im sure you are great to be around so if people don't like the look of you then can't see into your heart xxxxxxxxxxxx

 
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14.06.2006, 20:04 quote

Anonymous

maryofdungloe wrote:
mike im sure you are great to be around so if people don't like the look of you then can't see into your heart xxxxxxxxxxxx


Maybe it's true, or maybe there IS something wrong with me, I just can't see it, and people can.

 
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14.06.2006, 20:12 quote

ligthmeup
Joined: 22 May 2006 Posts: 36 Location: United Kingdom, ,
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Mike456 wrote:
Riko wrote:
i dont find it why you would have to react so much to these posts like that.


Perhaps because I have strong views on these women who seem to be under the impression that ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS when people like me put effort into trying to be atleast a half-decent person. There's so many people on this forum, and even in the community that don't give people a chance sometimes. It'd be so easy for me to go message every girl on this community with "ASL OMG C2C?" But I don't because I for one "And I know there are many others" am a male not seeking for a quick shag over a Cable Modem. I'm a ugly, mis-understood teenager looking for some decent conversation, and maybe some security, even if it means trading good looks for these qualities, it's a sacrafice I don't particularly care about. These sorts of discussions make me reach for the knife, the effort I put into trying to simply be who I am is wasted, I'm a waste, I'm a waste of space and oxygen.

But don't you even find it funny how every single one of these threads are started by some female, and they ALWAYS go on to the subject about how every male is some sort of blood-sucking love-hunting pervert. And isn't it funny how there doesn't seem to be many, if any threads relating to "Why do ALL women screw men over?" or "Why do women go for looks?" We're stranded in a post-modern society, unfortunatly, and because of what other males do, myself and others are judged and labelled because of it.

I'm an overweight 18 year old male with the most horrid face in the world, my body-shape is appauling, even when I do something about it "It's 'improved' from what it once was". And yet if I talk to a female, I'm seen as a complete pervert, where as 'x' next to me, who's slimmer, somehow manages to do that messy thing with his hair and talks about nothing other than love gets what he wants in life. Karma's fucked up, and it's raping me from behind.

Challange my views, delete my post, hate me and ban me from the discussion board, do what you like, but remember that I'm voicing my own opinion, something every user is granted here. And I'm telling it how it is, in my world.

Now if you excuse me, I'm off to try taking my life with a pair of plastic scissors, it's about the most productive thing I can do.



Yeah, that's right dude, you are a fucking waste of space and you're taking my oxygen. Plastic scissors? Why don't you go for the matal ones? Or perhaps you should just run out in front of a bus? Because the world doesn't need people like you. {sarcasm}

I'm one of those slim guys, who somehow manages to do the messy thing with my hair (but i don't talk about love), yet karmas been raping me for years. I've managed to marry up almost every single chance of a relationship i've ever had. Why you ask? Because i'm not particularly funny, and women always go for the guys with a "GOSH", and never take into account the other things that make up a person. I'm sick of it, and i'm very angry and cinical young man because of it. "Don't worry you'll find someone eventually" - is bullshit. I'm going to end up in some shit 1 bedroom appartment at 30, surrounded by my paintings - and alone. My views doesn't make it easy to make friends either, not many can understand why i don't use my mobile phone to ring them (i hate technology as it thing it'll bring about the of humanity), or why i think the UK and the USA is slipping into a fascist police state (too long to explain).

marry it dude - pass over the scissors when you're finished.

 
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14.06.2006, 20:53 quote

Anonymous

ligthmeup wrote:
Mike456 wrote:
Riko wrote:
i dont find it why you would have to react so much to these posts like that.


Perhaps because I have strong views on these women who seem to be under the impression that ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS when people like me put effort into trying to be atleast a half-decent person. There's so many people on this forum, and even in the community that don't give people a chance sometimes. It'd be so easy for me to go message every girl on this community with "ASL OMG C2C?" But I don't because I for one "And I know there are many others" am a male not seeking for a quick shag over a Cable Modem. I'm a ugly, mis-understood teenager looking for some decent conversation, and maybe some security, even if it means trading good looks for these qualities, it's a sacrafice I don't particularly care about. These sorts of discussions make me reach for the knife, the effort I put into trying to simply be who I am is wasted, I'm a waste, I'm a waste of space and oxygen.

But don't you even find it funny how every single one of these threads are started by some female, and they ALWAYS go on to the subject about how every male is some sort of blood-sucking love-hunting pervert. And isn't it funny how there doesn't seem to be many, if any threads relating to "Why do ALL women screw men over?" or "Why do women go for looks?" We're stranded in a post-modern society, unfortunatly, and because of what other males do, myself and others are judged and labelled because of it.

I'm an overweight 18 year old male with the most horrid face in the world, my body-shape is appauling, even when I do something about it "It's 'improved' from what it once was". And yet if I talk to a female, I'm seen as a complete pervert, where as 'x' next to me, who's slimmer, somehow manages to do that messy thing with his hair and talks about nothing other than love gets what he wants in life. Karma's fucked up, and it's raping me from behind.

Challange my views, delete my post, hate me and ban me from the discussion board, do what you like, but remember that I'm voicing my own opinion, something every user is granted here. And I'm telling it how it is, in my world.

Now if you excuse me, I'm off to try taking my life with a pair of plastic scissors, it's about the most productive thing I can do.



Yeah, that's right dude, you are a fucking waste of space and you're taking my oxygen. Plastic scissors? Why don't you go for the matal ones? Or perhaps you should just run out in front of a bus? Because the world doesn't need people like you. {sarcasm}

I'm one of those slim guys, who somehow manages to do the messy thing with my hair (but i don't talk about love), yet karmas been raping me for years. I've managed to marry up almost every single chance of a relationship i've ever had. Why you ask? Because i'm not particularly funny, and women always go for the guys with a "GOSH", and never take into account the other things that make up a person. I'm sick of it, and i'm very angry and cinical young man because of it. "Don't worry you'll find someone eventually" - is bullshit. I'm going to end up in some shit 1 bedroom appartment at 30, surrounded by my paintings - and alone. My views doesn't make it easy to make friends either, not many can understand why i don't use my mobile phone to ring them (i hate technology as it thing it'll bring about the of humanity), or why i think the UK and the USA is slipping into a fascist police state (too long to explain).

marry it dude - pass over the scissors when you're finished.


Wow, you're gonna become my new best friend. Please get in contact with me!

 
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