well i think myself it is down mainly to vanity both male and female alike, size is an an issue went it comes to showing off to the mates of the male or female who has that sexy figure or hunky body we are by nature all vain , and here i expect most who read this will say ' well i,m not vain ' then ask yourself how often do you go out without checking in the mirrior on how you look?? , is this not a small amount of vanity in all of us???, so i say yes size matters be it a males or females size
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Well I would disagree I would rather go for a curvy woman....stick insects make me sick....lol....
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dont get me wrong i prefer the fuller women as theres more to hug , my X wife was a size 18 and she ran off with a younger ' hunky' male ( i must of had to many miles on the clock lol ) , which by the way she is no longer with.
all i,m saying as most people dont look past the wrapping , which is a shame as there are some very kind caring honest larger ladys out there
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Personally speaking, i love a woman with curves( big round arse etc) and i bet most men do as well, There is some kind of conspiracy in all the media and magazines coz all they do is show stick insects, and any kind of celebrity with a curvy body e.g j-lo they take the piss out of them, yet big up women like keira "don't feed me knightley. bizarre

For me, in all honesty it doesn't matter what the body looks like its all in the face and personality. You for example have a cute kitten face, lol.

personally, i find skinny women less attractive than girls with a bit of flesh on them. i think it is natural for women to have curvy bodies.
i think it very sexy aswell, when a curvy girl is happy with her body, and not wishing she was skinny

The media is a contradictive farce. One minute they are praising the stars for their gorgeous, toned bodies. The next day you see them being victimised for having flabby tummys while sunbathing on holiday.

I'm a size 16. I have piled on the weight since I stopped smoking. Do I care what people think of me? Hell no. If you are so shallow as to judge a person based solely on their size or appearance, then you are more to be pitied.

The way I look at it . . . it's just cushion for the pushin!!!



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I'd say smoking was far more unattractive than being a little curvy!

Well done for giving it up!

Curvy is bext IMO!

Every man has different tastes, I like to see people at there natural size, if you eat healthy and excersise enough then you be your natural size.

But we dont all go for skinny girls, thats just a myth.

Yes, A few guys said it, the more positive u r in urself, the more sexy. When I am down, however thin, men don't notice me... and though my weight fluctuates... even at my biggest (varied between size 10 and size 18 over the years)... even at big size, if I am good about me, there is a long queue for my attentions. :> In fact most marriage proposals at larger size. Go figure.

i think we are all victims of the media..

personally i prefer slim women - i'd say no larger than a size 12 (dont shoot me its a personal preference)

I think men are broken down into 2 groups (i might be wrong here)

Boobs
Bum

Men that love boobs tend to love curves
Men that love bums tend to pursue slimmer women

But us men are victims of the same campaign...

How come all you women go goey for 6 packed, athletic fellas (brad pitt, jake gyllenhall, viggo in LOTR)...

given a choice between the male eqivalent of a size 14 and a size 8/10 u girls would always choose the latter....
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