the difference is who's got more irrational fears...

Hello, look, how about telling them things the way they are ? Like, "look i like you but it's not for love so don't come claim i didn't warn ???
DO i sound naive ???

yeah i had irrational fears....found they were just that...anyways back to the original question which as i recall was whether guys mind the ladies making the first move in general.....HELL NO...go for it girl! I'm made up if i catch the eye of someone (either out'n'about or online) and she says 'hi' first etc.

Ooops I started something....<sudden glut of emails!> hahahahaha
Nothing if not polite....Hi to you too :0)

Hiya

Hello and welcome

If the question is do guys mind if girls make first contact then I reckon the obvious answer is no.

However I suspect the important question is does it mean they expect easy love? I think it would depend on how you approach it. Just explain what you are looking for, if you want to just get to know them first then tell them that and I guess find out what they are looking for too.

If I say 'hi' first it's because something on the profile has caught my eye... either they've made me laugh, or they're good looking/young looking for their age or they like Terry Pratchett. And if they're all 3 ..... woo-hoo!!!



NB Not that I do now of course

dont mind if i do lol

All good advice i guess but....'giving advice to people is like trying to give medicine to children...as much as they need it they don't want it!'... (a good quote but I can't remember who said it....)