id love it if a girl came onto me, it would make me feel that i was wanted by them. otherwise id feel like they mite only be talking to me cus i went upto them first

Then it's time for the rolled up newspaper. Just remember to only use it on the dog...

*gets the RSPCA on standby*

aww thats good (not that your cats blind, but your an animal lover) we had a one eyed cat when i was younger, he lived to be a ripe old age (in cat years)

I too would love if a woman decided to make the first move, either wanting to date, or just to chat, coz i am crap at startin conversations.

i would love to get mails from ladies in here rather than just looking at my profile. In an age when there is supposed equality why is it you ladies are still unable to write and chat with a guy initiating the contact first. to me it is just someone wanting to get to know another person, it doesnt signal she wants to have sex or is even going to. i joined the site hoping that because everyone is supposedly here for friendship or more i would get contacted. oh, and btw when i say more, i am talking about a relationship.

to the ladies out there who do initiate contact, to those that respond to a contact i applaud you, even if it is only to say sorry, your not my type.

thank god buying a car is easier

one last thought to add. most people even if they are confident are nervous about making contact, and i would guess a fair percentage make a mess of their attempts, give the other person chance to show themselves if they have attempted to do so, its not always the first impression that comes over well