Nice girls exhist!!? lol point them my way

I didn't expect that sort of response!

Yep, hands up my name on here isn't the best and I did ask if I was expecting too much from a site called flirtbox... but in my defence it was advertised as dating and relationships, not swinging and casual sex! lol And if people are clear what they want from the off then best of luck to them. I'm not here to judge, not my place.

I'm not going to dignify the insults with a response... we are all entitled to our own opinion, whether anyone really cares what you have to say is another matter... I personally couldn't give a flying f*** what certain people think of the way I look!

Thanks to all the positive people,
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Actually Desolation is doing the world a much bigger favor than most people - he speaks his mind and we end up making a lot more progress then the "nice" people we see each day, who rarely say what they're thinking to the people they talk to, except occasionally behind their back. I bet he does pretty good with woman too...

personally I find anything remotely resembling honesty on this site quite refreshing... is that horribly cynical of me?

Desolation may speak his mind, but he has the mind of a prick.

By the way, I saw your picture and, speaking my mind, I'd like to say that you look neither fat nor ugly.

Some guys do like nice girls.

Desolation seems to have vanished.

There's being nasty and then there's being too nice.

Like the rating picture thread elsewhere, everyone is far too nice and hands out 10s to everyone, kinda defeats the object. But anywho, back to it..

The lady didn't ask you about her appearance, whoever that guy is that insulted her. Therefore, none of us wanted your opinion on that. It was nasty and uncalled for. Yes everyone's entitled to their own opinion but to say it is another. Sure people say 'SPEAK YOUR MIND'.. but you'll learn in time there are situations where you just don't.

HOWEVER. On topic. There are guys that want relationships, it's just incredibly hard to find decent ones. Keep looking and with todays technology - you're bound to find someone that'll make you happy (:

Hey fungirlh, I'm a nice girl too and I get the messages from idiots that assume that i'm up for "fun"
I think they actually read the profiles, they just go "oh yeah she'll do".

I've had the same experience that you have had about talking to men on here for a while and because I wont get "my kit off" for them on cam they just disappear. I don't know if that's what happened to you. But it was the reason why I hadn't been on this site in years.

But, because I'm an etrnal optomist (sorry if that is wrong spelling), I decided to come back on and see if there were any nice guys hiding around.

So far inbetween the chaff I've seen glimpses of decent blokes.

I'm going to keep my fingers crossed for you, if you'll do the same for me!

Sorry for the essay everyone, and I hope it helps people to keep going!

x

Bravo Bravo!
I,ve just come back after a longish break and found quite a few marked differences on the site! The one thing that hasn't changed is the idiots who spoil it for the genuine people!

It is a sad fact that guys outnumber the girls! you just have to look at the new members! It's difficult i know but don't let the morons spoil it for you! just ignore them! I wouldn't admit to having a webcam until i was sure of the person i was chatting to!

Everything apart there are genuine people on here!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

OMG! eccles I remember you from when I used to post on discussion boards! How are you hun? (I know completely off topic) I really hope you find someone this time!