Gentlemen do exist! Perhaps some good manners a reply sometimes would be nice! I keep meeting women who are lookin for a financier rather than a fiancee! Ladies manners maketh man! jerks exist and so do jerkettes!!! try not to be narrow does it hurt to chat to someone who is older or younger? or perhaps a few miles away? I'm honest open have no problem with giving an email addie or im happy to talk to anyone!

So everyone let the past stay that way look to the future your last partner may have treated you like s**t but will the next person be the same? if you look for stereotypes then i'm sorry to say thats all you will find! best of luck to you! Try and chill email the person that catches your eye if it doesn't work a polite no thank you doesn't hurt it the person is an asshole then just block them simple!!! Oh and please ladies remember to logout! a couple of you have been on line for monthes and one since 2005 LoL happy hunting and have fun

Bravo workingmale good shot like they say once bitten twice shy!!!! the only thing is can a leopard change its spots?

gd day whizzer!!! nowt wrong with a bit of emphasis on a comment!

I have quite a happy smiley disposition and do fairly well with the ladies... Though because I dont act macho and I smile a lot 50%+ of women initially think I am gay....

BUT I have tried experiments of acting all macho and moody, and it instantly draws women amazingly.... But none that I would want to be friends with or go out with...

The truth of the matter is that, owing to a firey disposition, weight training and years of martial arts training, I am actually considerably more handy in a scrap than most of the plonkers that wonder around doing a macho act anyway...

---- Sorry if you are picking up some frustration here, but its just very frustrating!!!!...

Look no multi emphasis on this one! guys i think we gotta admit no matter how nice or straight you are you can never satisfy the ladies of this day and age! they all seem to say one thing and mean the opposite! So does a polite nice email work? I don't think so judging by the number of replies i get? so do you start by sayin get your kit off? U would be castigated no end for being a sexist pig! It totally eludes me as to the perfect medium! SO LADIES FOLLOWIN THIS THREAD PRAY LET US INTO THE SECRET! would you like a male who is a pretty good blend of sugar and spice with a little naughtiness and an evil sense of humour? or that out and out MCP! or the inveterate set in his way alchi or thug?

Plenty gents around but when you've met the
selfish scheming coniving gold-digginf women I have sometimes you forget to act like one

I'll make it easy:
There is no secret to what we want.

Deep down, most of us want a nice guy.
The odd few want a bad boy.

I personally would prefer a nice guy, that treats a girl well.

I know how you feel about wondering if there is a genuine article in someone out there. At 32, i have always put my faith in the wrong ones but am never gonna give up hope that there is the right one out there for us all. Even though your only young, life is short and just go out there and make the most and best of it for yourself. I hope for you as myself and other genuine people out there that we will get lucky and find true love one day xx

Well that makes some degree of sense but does it really have any creedance as a criteria that you girls are asking for. I've always been told i'm too nice! i see guys treat girls like s**t but it seems that they always manage to get the best girls! an ex of mine used to get knocked around by her ex!!!! everytime we fell out she would keep goading me to hit her!!!! MAN not my style1 thats the pits!!!!! any guy who resorts to violence against a woman is a SICKO! another went off wiv someone else and then wanted me to take her back OH NO!!!! i dont go backwards so come on what is the real secret!!!?????

If only i knew the answer to that one, i wouldn't be now seperated and going through a custody battle with my sad ex. I know what you mean though, i think i'm a pretty decent bloke and down to earth but for a lot of girls that will never be enough. Will always live in hope as long as the heart keeps tickin

A wee tip DonT let your ex win!!!! i did! i havnt seen my crew for 11 years! If we can unravel the mysteries of the female mind then its gotta be a winner! I would just like to settle with that one special gal. I'm wearing my hair out with all the scratchin and pondering! also find some of the double meanings cause probs in this day and age!! does FUN mean a leg ova and how bout ACTIVITY PARTNER!!!!!!