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18.09.2008, 13:05 quote

deepthroath

ravencolouredsky wrote:
the problem about asking us about her is that we only know as much about her as you tell us


unfortunately not every girl is the same. for instance if she is like DTH then i have not doubt that her idea will work well, but if she's like me then shes likely to run a mile whether she likes you or not.


Okay Raven, valid point. People are different. So from one extreme to the other (being you and me) what would you suggest he did?

 

18.09.2008, 13:15 quote

eda85

Well seeing as you and her are spending time together out of work surely you can put a few searching questions to her. I don't mean clumsy ones. At the end of the day if it works it works. (Aimed at OP not Heidi Very Happy )

 

18.09.2008, 13:35 quote

ravencolouredsky
ravencolouredsky Joined: 07 Aug 2008 Posts: 1522 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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DeepthroatH wrote:
ravencolouredsky wrote:
the problem about asking us about her is that we only know as much about her as you tell us


unfortunately not every girl is the same. for instance if she is like DTH then i have not doubt that her idea will work well, but if she's like me then shes likely to run a mile whether she likes you or not.


Okay Raven, valid point. People are different. So from one extreme to the other (being you and me) what would you suggest he did?


to be honest i'm not sure though the best thing to do would probably be honest.

although as you said its going from one extreme to the other between you and me.....i wish i was abit more like you on the subject Sad

 

18.09.2008, 14:21 quote

rocketgirl

DeepthroatH wrote:
Teggro - do you often piddle in pools?

Silver, i think you are reading far too much into things here. You seem to be analysing her every move and facial expression. Well stop it. Turn the whole thing round. Make out like you dont really care, and are not interested. Take a call in front of her on your mobile from "Emily" (Make sure your phone is on silent before you do this cos you will look a right twat if it rings mid conversation!) and be very flirty down the phone. Even arrange a "date" and say things like... "oooh, are you really going to wear that? Mmmm....yes please".... just make out like some woman wants you all over the place.

She will either run a mile, or be driven to come after you more. If she likes you, and is worth her salt, it will be the latter.

:0)


Worth her salt she'd go after him more?
Oh dear. I'm not worth my salt then....if a guy deliberately was on the phone to another woman flirting etc. like that, my immediate reaction would be "he's making it VERY clear he's interested in someone else, not me" and I'd go find another office to work in!
I dont think of myself as 'not worth my salt' but more that not all of us are honed in on these mind games! Razz

 

18.09.2008, 14:41 quote

deepthroath

Raven - dont ever wish to be like any one else with anything. you are what you are chick, and just right for someone out there.

And RG - not saying people who wouldnt arent worth their salt at all, i just know that if he did that to me, i would go after him more.

But then thats me, and i am a lot more "strong headed" i guess when it comes to these things.

I think what it boils down to is i am a bossy cow, and i get what i want! (Most of the time.)

:0p

 

18.09.2008, 15:49 quote

Teggro
Joined: 31 May 2007 Posts: 564 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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DeepthroatH wrote:
Teggro - do you often piddle in pools?


No, although my resting after swimming one length could lead people to believe otherwise. However, in a serious tone - I don't. I'm not looking, and I've not piddled in pools for years. Years. I assure you though, the one I have is going to get a splash of chlorine once I get the chance.

Now Silver you got two options - one I mentioned or what DTH mentioned. The latter has a big problem.... do you want to potentially play games for all your time with her? Assuming a relationship forms.

 
 
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