If you are kinda dating a guy.. you have kissed a few times said you like him but am unsure of how things should go.. he spends out allof of money on you for a meal before you go away on holiday.

DO NOT--
come back and proceed to tell this guy how you spent the last two weeks shagging some guy you met in the hotel. how in love with said guy you are and how you will be moving there for a year.. oh and repeating how much sex you were getting..

This will piss him off without limits..

kthks bai..

Do I detect a hint of personal experiance?

i'm suprised you listened to all that, i'd have her out of my sight after the 1st bit ... Some people have no sense of how to treat people..

See it as a lucky escape, and a good thing.

that was jsut the highlights.. I was just about to leave when a mate rang me up and asked if I wanted to go down the pub.. so I did..

and yes personal experience she got back on sat after two weeks away I went round to catch up and all I got was miguel this that and the other I left my heart in mexico.. etc..

I feel like I have just been slapped in the face by a two foot haddock..
angry is not the word..

its not that shes fallen for some mexican guy or anything like that.. I do wish her luck truly and I did not have a "claim" on her any ways.

its the fact that I now feel like I have been used as someone just to entertain her and dragged allong I have been chatting to other girls but I actually was developing feelings for her which does not happen often as I keep people at a distance for a very long time untill I can trust them.

but there was no consideration for how I felt or anything just whammo.

I just cant believe how much its actually hurt really cant.

aww sweets thats awful really dont know what to say to make you feel any better.

ahh its all right im just venting..
although sat night I remembered a quote from a film and I thought it apt..
" I felt like destroying something beautifull"

Ill be fine thanks for your concern.

Mo worries been there myself a few times

Better you find this out now rather than in a few years time.

Consider it a lucky escape mate.

yup... that I am..Lucky

It does just confuse me a little ive come across things similar before and also seen it happen with other people I know.(although none have affected me like this)
why do people say they need space to get over someone or sort their head out (insert personal experiences here) then the next thing you know the person you thought they were seeing with whatever is out the window and they are loved up with someone comepletely new.
Complete U turn in under 30 seconds

sounds like my ex, been together 5 years, he calls me whilst I was working away to say he was moving out because he was unhappy living where we lived (not unhappy with me though) and this morning I got a text of him to tell me hes getting engaged. Even when the whole time we were together he couldn't see himseif getting married and all this within 5 months.

This the lass you've been close to the last couple months Das?

Am gutted for you mate! Some people are just too into themselves to see the hurt they cause other people...

yea it was scuba...
Jelly tot - thats harsh.. when did you two split???

About 6 months ago, so it was a rapid turn around

it really does make you think what did they do differently or what changed their minds

That's got to hurt, good job you didn't let yourself fall for her too deep. If it's any consolation, holiday romances are usually just that and she'll feel a fool. At least you heard it from her straight.