Hee Hee well i'm only a couple of hours away on the train!! and Kev had to buy new ones cos the cat kept climbing up the old ones. It could happen in any place though! all you need is the confidence to give way to an impulse! LOL
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

i know im slightly off topic here. i know that the confidence boost that people are referring to right now comes from strangers or kind comments out of nowhere, but for me the single most thing that makes me feel vindicated as a person is a solid days hard work, A hard days work that you didn't have to give because it was your job or because you were paid for it, but because you did it out of your own decency. Every moment you helped an old lady across the road, evey moment you gave a kind word when it was needed, every moment when you fed a stray dog or cat is something you should feel good about. The confidence boost people need or talk about isn't dependent on a reaction of the opposite love, but on their own humanity. Wishy washy i know, but sometimes i worry that people forget about their own goodness.

1. new coat that makes me think i'm a movie star.
2. ordering food in resteraunt
3. girl brings me food in resteraunt


ok reading those back i think i might be weird but posting them anyway

I tell you if are going on a date or something and having a confidence crisis i found a great trick is to brain wash self into thinking it's someone else going on date. I ask my self what would john travolta do?

Interesting....

I just think 'they will like me, i must NOT be too sarcastic, or too opinionated'..That normally works.

my system works better less thinking but i must avoid saying would you like a ride home in my private jet?

aahhh conifdence my old friend.......

for me it simple pleasures
1.shaving
2.brushing my teeth
3.doing my hair
4.anything that involes me having to groom myself generally

yeah making myself look good makes my confidence soar if i wanna feel good on a bad day i just get myself ready to go out(even if im staying in) iron shirt trousers shower put them on and sit down have me dinner and go to bed hehe
but it works like a charm and the next day i feel great not much else works acctually compliments apart from that nothing really works xxxx

I always get worried that I may say something wrong on a date.

I suck at the whole dating thing anyway..haha.