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Poll: Do you think love is changing
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28.07.2007, 09:11 quote
i think i'll have a fling then so i don't clusterfuck up a good thing (nice word). There's a shite club by me that apparently caters for the 30+ boozy fancy a shag love crowd. Gets messy in there though. Couple of drinks and a kebab on the way home, guaranteed sloppy shag.
28.07.2007, 09:39 quote
| scubawallace wrote: |
| Did I say be a fkin doormat you numpties?
No I don't think I did! Translation for the soulless fkers amongst you! *more stuff edited out* |
Have you not considered the possibility that you did not express yourself clearly enough in your initial post ?
I also think you contradict your stated outlook on life by getting frustrated so quickly. You'd never be good at teaching people anything with an attitude like that. When people misunderstand me, I think it is more important to be patient and calmly find ways to better communicate what I mean. I find that appearing frustrated or angry tends to make someone switch off and not want to listen.
I go with what Samatron said more than anything else, with a bit of Chikai's approach thrown in from time to time.
28.07.2007, 09:48 quote
| CharmingDave wrote: | ||
Have you not considered the possibility that you did not express yourself clearly enough in your initial post ? I also think you contradict your stated outlook on life by getting frustrated so quickly. You'd never be good at teaching people anything with an attitude like that. When people misunderstand me, I think it is more important to be patient and calmly find ways to better communicate what I mean. I find that appearing frustrated or angry tends to make someone switch off and not want to listen. I go with what Samatron said more than anything else, with a bit of Chikai's approach thrown in from time to time. |
Well I am sorry Mr Charming but I'm not made of stone. I have emotions and I'm not afraid of expressing them. Thank you.
28.07.2007, 10:02 quote
| scubawallace wrote: |
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Well I am sorry Mr Charming but I'm not made of stone. I have emotions and I'm not afraid of expressing them. Thank you. |
No one was talking about being made of stone or emotionless, it was just a grossly disproportionate reaction to not being understood as you intended to be.
This whole Karma thing, it's a bit selfish really, isn't it ? Doing good things only because you expect good things to come back to you at some point. Would you turn into a nasty bastard and not care if evidence were ever to arise proving that it is a load of crap ? I'm not saying it is, by the way, I'm just talking about a hypothetical scenario. I want to know if you would still treat people the same way if there was nothing in it for you.
28.07.2007, 10:19 quote
| CharmingDave wrote: | ||
No one was talking about being made of stone or emotionless, it was just a grossly disproportionate reaction to not being understood as you intended to be. This whole Karma thing, it's a bit selfish really, isn't it ? Doing good things only because you expect good things to come back to you at some point. Would you turn into a nasty bastard and not care if evidence were ever to arise proving that it is a load of crap ? I'm not saying it is, by the way, I'm just talking about a hypothetical scenario. I want to know if you would still treat people the same way if there was nothing in it for you. |
What a missguided little chappie you are Mr Charming.
I've learned not to expect anything from the world. Its not made for our well-being, it just is. If your out walking on moorland enjoying the view and breathing deeply and enjoying the fresh air, if your foot goes down a rabbit hole you will still break your leg.
People are just the same. They're not there for anyone else's benefit, they're there for themselves. I know that.
Karma. If your life is guided by the wish - or rather need, to try as much as possible to do right by others, to put yourself out now and then for the benefit of others, then your outlook - or at least, selfishly, mine, improves. When I stop on the street in bike or car to let that frustrated mother pushing a pram and loaded with shopping to cross the busy road, it makes me feel good when I get her smile of thanks. That one little thing cam brighten the rest of my day. I don't know her, I will probably never see her again in my life. Is that selfish?
Further on karma. If you surround your life with things like that, chances are occassionally they will bounce back at you, or at least a little more often than if you surround yourself with an aroma of 'I'm only out for number one'.
I'm not perfect and I don't try and act like I am. I do however believe in being nice to people, at least untill they prove they're not worth it. Then I will do my best to ignore them, like I do with you Mr Charming. But I'm human just like everyone else, and I have a fiesty celtic nature, naturally sometimes it boils over.
Oh, and I didn't percieve myself as being misunderstood you stupid little man. I precieved my attempt at making the world a slightly happier place as being belittled by someone with no morals who is trying to drag everyone else down to his level.
Next anal response?
28.07.2007, 10:29 quote
| scubawallace wrote: |
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What a missguided little chappie you are Mr Charming. |
How can asking a question be mis-guided ? So long as one listens, it is by default accepting that one's knowledge of something is, or might be, inadequate. I was well aware that you would disagree with the suggestion, but I couldn't help but get the idea that this whole karma thing is very selfish, so I thought I would ask you.
Anyway, thank you for your response, even if it was loaded with arrogance and rude behaviour.
28.07.2007, 12:32 quote
| twistedvoilet wrote: |
| hahahahha wicked, i do agree with that in some sense, but i also believe in karma, so i tend to mix and match them |
I believe in karma too.
28.07.2007, 12:42 quote
| CharmingDave wrote: |
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So long as one listens, it is by default accepting that one's knowledge of something is, or might be, inadequate. |
Sorry Dave but reading that sentence just reminded me of that Viz character Mr.Logic
btw i am not saying you are a pain in the arse or likening you to Mr.Logic, the sentence just reminded me of that...
28.07.2007, 16:17 quote
| CharmingDave wrote: | ||
How can asking a question be mis-guided ? So long as one listens, it is by default accepting that one's knowledge of something is, or might be, inadequate. I was well aware that you would disagree with the suggestion, but I couldn't help but get the idea that this whole karma thing is very selfish, so I thought I would ask you. Anyway, thank you for your response, even if it was loaded with arrogance and rude behaviour. |
28.07.2007, 16:48 quote
| scottie69 wrote: | ||
Sorry Dave but reading that sentence just reminded me of that Viz character Mr.Logic
btw i am not saying you are a pain in the arse or likening you to Mr.Logic, the sentence just reminded me of that... |
No, that is fair enough, some of the things I have said in the past have made my brother say exactly the same thing about me. I can see where you are coming from
I'm big enough, and ugly enough, to take it. 
28.07.2007, 17:22 quote
:MY PARENTS LOVED EACH OTHER AND WERE TOGETHER FOR 50 YEARS AND THAT IS WHAT IT"S ALL ABOUT. BEING THERE, TOTALLY WITH ABSOLUTE LOVE FOR EACH OTHER. ALL THIS CRAP ABOUT "LOWER YOUR STANDARDS AND JUST GRAB WHAT YOU CAN AND HAVE A GOOD TIME" IS SUPERFICIAL BOLLOX. I WOULD"NT LOWER MY STANDARDS FOR ANYONE, NOT THAT I"M ANYTHING SPECIAL. GET IN TOUCH WITH LIFE, THE WORLD AND YOUR OWN INNER SELF AND YOU WILL DISCOVER A DEPTH OF EXISTENCE YOU NEVER THOUGHT EXISTED !!
28.07.2007, 18:41 quote
After this post I'm inclined not to give a rat's azz again. I think we should start a new topic: The kurse of the screwed up relationships, way of thinking and way of life. 
Am I makin' any sense?
28.07.2007, 20:51 quote
| CharmingDave wrote: |
| [the usual crap] |
Arrogance and rude behaviour is it?
Firstly you accused me of a 'grossly disproportionate reaction' based on a false assumption - that I thought I has been misunderstood - see above for why that is crap.
Then you state that 'karma' is selfish! You you fucking nit wit! You so obviously don't have a clue about the real concept of what karma actually means! Why exactly are YOU asking ME in such a provocative manner? You state that you are asking me what it is and at the same time state that it is selfish and crap!
And 'Would you turn into a nasty bastard and not care if evidence were ever to arise proving that it is a load of crap ?' If that wasnt bating me again I don't know what is! You pompus little tosser!
Get this. THERE IS NOTHING IN IT FOR ME!!!
I don't think love is changing at ALL! Its society that is ever-changing and at the current time its on a downward spiral, I try and inject a little niceness into things and I get shot down in flames!!! THAT my friends, is so SO a sign of the times!
28.07.2007, 21:04 quote
I also dont think love is changing, the world and other peoples attitudes are. It takes alot to find someone that shares your views and wants the same things in life as you do. I've been lucky and i've met some amazing men along the way but none were people i could fall in love with. I think people get hurt earlier and then that puts you off and your barriers come up and that affects every aspect of your love life afterward.
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