I don't think there are many nice people left now, ive seen girls and lads becoming mean. Now it's hard for me to find the right one, now that the world of love has changed i know im still young but im just worryed that there won't be a right girl for me in the near furture

yea, it's changed... As life's a biatch and you gotta learn how to ride it if you are to have any fun at all, love's like that too. So learn how to ride the new biatch.

be nice to people, regardless of how shit the world is around you, and good karma will eventually come your way.

And anyone who contradicts that statement is not getting good karma because they have not yet earned it...

Who, me? I'm all sugar.

Bygones... I didn't post anythin. This is a blaaaaaaaaaaank message.

lifes a bitch then you date one or marry one, ....get used to it or buy a lifes supply of prozac and let life pass you by

pmsl good one elitious.

I don't go with all this cynicism!
There aren't any nice people?
That's just plain nonsense.
What about your mum?
Just about everyone's mum is nice!
If that's the case, there must be a hell of a lot of nice people out there.

I also don't think it's your job to be nice to other people.
You be nice to people, and they read it and treat you like a dirt bag.
It's not like the one nice person out there will notice you and home in on you!

Don't go thinking its important to look for someone nice. You're not looking for a pet monkey for god's sake, you're looking for someone who challenges you, excites you, stimulates you and pushes you to be the best person you can be. If you're lucky to find that person, chances are they won't be nice to you all the time, because sometimes you'll need a boot up the backside! I accept that it is always wrong to accept second class behaviour from anyone at anytime, but you can't expect a prospective partner to constantly go out of their way to smile around you, pat you on the back and make you cups of tea all the time!

If you want heartache. If you want to be used. If you absolutely, positively and with 100% certainty don't want love; then be nice.

Okay the latter statement might not be true. If you persevere you might get a sympathy marry. If you're extremely lucky.

If you're nice then all you're doing is sending out a signal that you're 'safe'. Like a puppy dog. And, with the exception of some German women (if the film evidence is to be believed), women are not sexually attracted to puppy dogs.

Okay, so it's not all about love, but sexual attraction is the bedrock of any relationship. There has to be some sort of sexual chemistry or it's going nowhere. Despite what Mills & Boon would have you believe. Now don't confuse sexual attraction with physical attraction. There is a difference. If this weren't the case then we wouldn't have a population problem and the unfortunate people who fell from the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down would have died out in Neolithic age.

Right, that's being nice out of the window. Lets move on to Mr/Mrs Right. Newsflash: There isn't one. And in any case, you don't find Mr/Mrs Right; they find you. If you spend all your time window-shopping then throw in the towel now and join a monastery. The trouble with creating some ideal man or woman is that you get too choosey, and you get less inclined to take a chance with Mr/Mrs Almost Right. Consequently you spend a lot of time alone and develop that air of uptightness and desperation that is an instant turn-off to the opposite love.

Lower your standards. Go out there and whore it up. Finding 'someone' is just like applying for a job; it's much easier to get one if you already have one. My advice is to get a fling. You can satisfy your base cravings and approach people with more confidence. It helps to loosen you up no end. Then if you do happen to come across someone who ticks all the right boxes you're less likely to make a complete clusterfuck of the process. And who knows, you might find out that what you were looking for initially isn't what you really wanted anyway.

Did I say be a fkin doormat you numpties?

No I don't think I did!

Translation for the soulless fkers amongst you!

Don't treat everyone else around you like a commodity, like they owe you something, treat them with the respect you would like to get in return, and now and then you WILL get it back, and it will be given wholly, utterly and without terms!

Now if behaving like that means you get treated like a doormat by someone, then dump em! Because THEY are the people Wingkind is posting about!

You dimwits!

Smile and the world smiles with you. Be a grumpy lackluster old godger? Go ahead but get outa my fkin airport