I'm sure couples as well as singles have thought of discreet love but I wondered what your thoughts are on discreet love when in a relationship?

When I were in my teens I was highly active in the love scene and often had three or more girlfriends who were up for love at the drop of a hat night or day. Time moves on and you settle down and although the love is still good it just doesn't seem the same as when single.
My current partner was a love fiend when I met her. Oral whilst driving wasn't un-common, however now she's tempted me away from my last partner she doesn't try as hard or at least doesn't thrive on it as much. So,.... my question is, do you think discreet encounters is a good way of supplimenting your love life? I'm talking safe clean love but love that would cover the ground not covered in your own bed?

I'm not talking of a big love appetite, just a once a month free fall love encounter?

no. it's not a good idea. if your partner found out im sure she would be very hurt. but perhaps not surprised considering, (if i read correctly) she took you off someone else.

each to their own. maybe if you asked HER opinion and she was ok with it..... or here's an idea...tell her you feel the love life is lacking. between the both of you i'm sure you can put the spark back into it.

good luck

I wouldn't agree with havin casual love if Iwas with sum1 but at the mo I would love sum. Haha! Not gettin any. God the Frustration!!

i think you should show us your face instead of the top of your head lol

There is a pic of my face on my profile,not a very clear 1 tho.I put this pic on second an it came up first. It's under switch83 my profile.

what a coincidence i happen to own several pairs of french knickers lmfao

Ummm really! Well you are living up to your name in my opinion anyway. Almostpurrrfect! There much sexyier than a thong I think!?

sometimes they are..... butttt...we gotta get back on topic

Yea! your right there slightly driftin away from the topic just a bit Nice to let me no tho Anyway I've got to go for now be back on a.s.a.p! Bye.

I def say no, if a couple is together then they should be exploring their own sexuality together, learning dif ways of satisfying and enjoying each other, there are lots of ways to spice up a dull love life without having to find an outside partner even if it is just once a month.
altho, Mandy u could spice up anyones love life lol

I don't understand the question.

Are we talking about casual love behind a partner's back? If so, then no.

If we're talking about bringing someone in casually to... ahem. Play with, as a couple... my answer would be yes. There's no reason why love must be non-exclusive and dishonest.