Nice does NOT mean boring.

There is NOT enough Nice these days

Hear Hear Laura!!!!! I applaud you there!!!!!!! Definitely nice DOESN'T mean Boring!!!!!!!! ever heard of manners flowerpot!!!! but i can be extremely extrovert to but in the proper context!!!! so next time a guy lets a door go in your face you will smile sweetly??????
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

I'm not nice enough, apparently.

I'm currently working on that. I'm trying to be a nicer person.

Stop putting yourself down hon!!! some ladies wouldn't recognise NICE if it slapped them in the face
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

ECCLES did you actually READ what I put?

I was saying there needs to be a balance. I LIKE politeness, I LIKE spontanaity! I like to be kept on my toes too!

'too nice' is boring, thats my opinion.....

I'm not the one who keeps getting dumped either! I'm not too nice and have always had good boyfriends that do have that 'balance'.
This site is just a bit of fun that has now turned far too serious. Apologies for getting involved.....

I think different people have different views of what "nice" is but for me, it means someone who:
1. doesn't go to the pub and knock his woman about
2. actually respects their partner
3. isn't afraid to show their love
4. does everything they can to please their partner (impossible!)
5. has their own life, hobbies, etc

I'm now of the opinion that you can spend TOO MUCH time together as a couple which makes things far too predictable because everyone seems to be getting more and more selfish nowadays and need their "me time". We all appreciate time alone so that's fair comment.

Whatever happened to good old fashioned RESPECT?

If a guy slammed a door in my face I'd probably laugh, unless it was a complete stranger and then that would be rude.

There are few guys who would do that anyway and it doesn't mean your 'nice' if you do have manners.

I think the term 'nice' is determined in many ways and it isn't about cheating or manners or buying stuff its about PERSONALITY.

We should all beg to differ.......

i always stick to my guns even if being nice gets me walked on and used i beleave in karma so i am not going to change one day il find some one who wont sacrafice being treated like a goddes for a fling with a scruffey bad tempered asshole cos i am sure women have an compution to be with guys who will miss treat them and iv got a reson why there is no nice guys left if you wana here it ask
when did everyone become mods

and manners does`nt cost a penny, some women are just all for one

I agree with the five points raised and agree fully with yourmanforevers comments but i still maintain that society isnt geared for the Nice person! or the gentlemen that still exist in thist day and age!!!There is too much of the bad guy wins these days!!!! so until im proved wrong im sticking to my guns!!!! and whether you know the person or not its still downright rude to let a door go in anyones face!! familiarity is not an excuss for crass ignorance!!!!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!