There's nothing worse than somebody who thinks that people just go for looks....it's stupid.

ok, so i,m wring say you, but then explain why it is that i myself have many times been in chat rooms just for a chat and company and soon as the ' LADY' i am chatting to gets to see what i look like they instantly leave, i dont consider myself ugly nor do i see myself as a hunk, just your avaerage guy of this day and age, i belive whats inside counts most, after all love comes from the heart , so once again i say looks do count with a high percentage of ladys

IF she dumped you and you wanted her then all you can say is - you messed up. You were nice but obviously that didn't work. You need to change up your game - be more mysterious, be bolder, do things that scare you, I don't know what that is.

Dress nicer, get a better haircut at a salon, hit the gym more and hang out with dudes who like to have fun! You have the control bro - it just is up to you to step up your game. Read "the mystery method."

When it comes to look let's face it - we ALL go for looks but really good looking people ahve spent a lot of TIME making themselves that way. You don't have to be a supermodel, but you're doing the best with what you got people will notice and respond to you better.

Learn to live with it, or pretend to be someone you're not (although I certainly wouldn't advise that) As hard as it is I would say you have to accept that they're probably not the one for you.


About that - you don't have to settle for ANYTHING less than what you want. Don't "learn to live with it," that just shows that you've given up. It's not YOU that isn't getting the results you want - it's WHAT YOU'RE DOING. You can change what you're doing - dress, the way you hold yourself, the way you communicate with woman. THere is a ton of info out there on this topic