Hi Chaps,

This site be enough to give you a complex!! After spending time writing our your profile and updating your pics. No one bloody replies or even sends you a message to say hi!

Whats the point of it? Is that someones idea of Fun?

Not lookinf for a wife altough some friendly emails would be nice!

Any views?

People can be rude when it comes to not replying to mails.

I find it's always polite to reply..

Not really had this problem, maybe there's something wrong with your profile?

Someone else will check it out for you

I find it damn good value for the price...

I figure if you have more success on sites where you pay, there's gotta be something wrong there? Surely no matter if you pay or not - you're going to either be attractive to certain people, or you're not - on a free site, there's more people available to you - so if you're getting more replies on a paying site, it's probable that site is just making fake replies to make you feel like you're getting value for money.

I wouldn't pay for a dating site.

I'm lucky because I have made a few friends on here.

Maybe just taking it easy and not rushing things will happen this is a good site and the people are friendly compared to other sites........

Well iwouldnt say i've been inundated with replies???. but on another site i started to recieve exactly the same message supposedly from different women so i agree Swiss there is that possibility. What remains though is perhaps some manners could be employed by some members???
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

Over the past 2 months or so, i've sent about 10 or 12 messages. Most were never read and i had no replies to those that were. I'm not sending anything smutty, usually something kinda witty/related to their profile. I only send messages to females that i'm attracted to and feel that we have similar interests so, in all fairness, i would expect a reply.

I wouldn't mind betting that the better looking guys get more mail, just the same as the "babes" get more mail. Regardless of anything else, the photo IS the deciding factor. Also, the men/women ratio is something like 80/20 so the women can afford to be more choosy.

Fake your picture ?

Obviously I'm not this good ;looking in real life

I've had replies to about 90% of the messages I've sent.

It's not the site that's the problem.

Many profile descriptions and photos are not great, so a bit of effort is probably worthwhile.

I cant believe women can be so rude as not to reply to a message. I have messages from guys aged 16 to 60 and everywhere in between and always send a reply, even if its to say thanks but no thanks. Civility costs nothing!! Nothing wrong with your profile or Pic Tony so hang in there you seem like a nice guy.[/quote]