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05.09.2006, 08:49 quote

Anonymous

ahh dammit i made the frames for my new sign too big..... grrrrrrr.... i will fix it later...in no mood to do it now. lmao.

i have to clean Crying or Very sad

 

05.09.2006, 10:23 quote

Anonymous

handymani wrote:
Slick22 wrote:
In life i think there are only two types of people, those who know what they want and go for it, and those that are not sure and fanny around.


i have to totally disagree with that statement, i think human beings are far more complex than that.


Depends on how you view things, to me everything is very black and white. It is how i like my life, your opinion may be different, but then opinions are never wrong. As much as people may try to tell you that it is.

 

05.09.2006, 14:56 quote

Anonymous

How hot is crazeychick85?????

Anyway I been there... the shoulder to cry on a milllion times as well but i don't consider self nice guy or a bad boy. I think is an age thing younger women tend to look towards bad boys because the selfishness arrogance and general idiot factors translate into confidence but in younger men really is mostly matcho posturing to reflect status which really is opposite of being confident in self. The women get treated badly because own self esteem issues make them think they need bad boy pet to make self feel better for having a guy with male status. Basically guy is matcho idiot and deluding self girl is twice the idiot for buying into it and thinking bad boy gives a damn about anything other than self.

Thing is when women get older they suddenly start changing the criteria they judge partners on. How many women suddenly change their type when looking to get married and have children. Suddeny nice guys at premium then but are usually well hacked off at raw deals they had in youth when they under valued. But guess what guys we have longer shelf life and the older man card to start second life with younger woman so we get to win out in the end. Well I'm hoping at least not got to that bit yet Smile

There is a worse position than bad boy or nice guy and that is of death trap. I actually had a girl not want to continue a relationship becasue i drive motorcycles and she figured i was bad emotional investment as was going to die horribley!

The world is mental

ok i ranted on there but i swear i'm sure i was going smewhere with it

 

05.09.2006, 14:59 quote

Anonymous

are you sure you never crashed and hit your head??

ever??

 

05.09.2006, 15:04 quote

Anonymous

I did actually when driving in january i dropped bike on ice and slapped head on road but i was so charged with adrenaline i jumped up and chased bike down road. I cught up with it and then realised i had sore arm and leg and neck and helmet all bashed up but was really good fun all the same. Adrenaline kicks ass especially when that slow motion thing happens and you suddenly have speed of the puma powers

 

05.09.2006, 15:04 quote

Anonymous

paulusmaximus wrote:
How hot is crazeychick85?????

Anyway I been there... the shoulder to cry on a milllion times as well but i don't consider self nice guy or a bad boy. I think is an age thing younger women tend to look towards bad boys because the selfishness arrogance and general idiot factors translate into confidence but in younger men really is mostly matcho posturing to reflect status which really is opposite of being confident in self. The women get treated badly because own self esteem issues make them think they need bad boy pet to make self feel better for having a guy with male status. Basically guy is matcho idiot and deluding self girl is twice the idiot for buying into it and thinking bad boy gives a damn about anything other than self.

Thing is when women get older they suddenly start changing the criteria they judge partners on. How many women suddenly change their type when looking to get married and have children. Suddeny nice guys at premium then but are usually well hacked off at raw deals they had in youth when they under valued. But guess what guys we have longer shelf life and the older man card to start second life with younger woman so we get to win out in the end. Well I'm hoping at least not got to that bit yet Smile

There is a worse position than bad boy or nice guy and that is of death trap. I actually had a girl not want to continue a relationship becasue i drive motorcycles and she figured i was bad emotional investment as was going to die horribley!

The world is mental

ok i ranted on there but i swear i'm sure i was going smewhere with it


well i do think you hit a point there about age and parenting...yes i think that does change what women and men want..its all down to instintual behaviour though surely..we dont compare ourselves enough with other animals/mammels..we are not so different..

 

05.09.2006, 15:08 quote

Anonymous

We not going to start girls/cats/dogs/wookies thread are we? The selfish gene are we only our dna? Does god hate us? Is chocolate cake the true source of happiness? Should i buy a suzuki GSXR 1000?

 

05.09.2006, 15:11 quote

Anonymous

'Cadbury's chocolate drink-just add hot water' with a shot of Baileys and a generous squirt of squirty cream is the route of all happiness.. tsk! Wink

 

05.09.2006, 15:14 quote

Anonymous

sounds little complicated....who can remember all those ingredients. Still squirty cream is great in many situations....mmmmm!

 

05.09.2006, 15:18 quote

Anonymous

paulusmaximus wrote:
I did actually when driving in january i dropped bike on ice and slapped head on road but i was so charged with adrenaline i jumped up and chased bike down road. I cught up with it and then realised i had sore arm and leg and neck and helmet all bashed up but was really good fun all the same. Adrenaline kicks ass especially when that slow motion thing happens and you suddenly have speed of the puma powers



I actually had a girl not want to continue a relationship becasue i drive motorcycles and she figured i was bad emotional investment as was going to die horribley!


does sound like fun...and dangerous as well..lol

 

05.09.2006, 15:25 quote

Anonymous

When's that irish girl coming back???

 

05.09.2006, 15:55 quote

Anonymous

why do u wanna know???

 

05.09.2006, 17:09 quote

FoxyHan
FoxyHan Joined: 15 Jun 2006 Posts: 1571 Location: United Kingdom, England, Derbyshire
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i dont want bad boys but i sub conciously either go for them or attract them but i dont want to, even the nice guys i have been with turn out to be complete shits in the end, i have very little confidence with men that i am attracted to now because of that although i have good friends who are guys ... its a vicious circle with me about what i want and what i actually attrat .... boo hiss


take this for an example .... just had a message from someone saying Hannah you Slapper, not nice but now i am thinking about it but i ahve deleted said message and tried to block the user but dunno if i managed it as its not come up on list

big meanie

 

05.09.2006, 17:36 quote

Anonymous

almostpurrrfect wrote:
why do u wanna know???


I like stripes that's why!

 

05.09.2006, 17:39 quote

Anonymous

FoxyHan wrote:
i dont want bad boys but i sub conciously either go for them or attract them but i dont want to, even the nice guys i have been with turn out to be complete shits in the end, i have very little confidence with men that i am attracted to now because of that although i have good friends who are guys ... its a vicious circle with me about what i want and what i actually attrat .... boo hiss


take this for an example .... just had a message from someone saying Hannah you Slapper, not nice but now i am thinking about it but i ahve deleted said message and tried to block the user but dunno if i managed it as its not come up on list

big meanie


cant believe you got that msg..bloody hell..just giving out random insults..for god sake dont listen to them ..

 
 
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