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25.08.2009, 09:44 quote

emsy86

I know what the answer is for some men..
But do we women need a man to have an outstanding personality to feel sexually attracted to him? Or can we just like men enjoy random love with the good looking & bollock brain?!

 

27.08.2009, 13:17 quote

sc0ttie

I think it all depends on how you know the other person. If it is someone you just met then physical attraction can play quite a leading role (especially if you are wearing your beer goggles at the time). But just meeting someone new and them being attractive is not normally enough. It happens so often that attractive people can seem frosty or up themselves and that to me would put me off "the scent" so to speak lol.

But you could also know someone at work who wasnt a real head turner in your eyes initially and who you had little contact with, then suddenly you find you are having to do a project together. You spend time with them and have such a great time that you are more attracted to them than you was before. Sometimes it can be more about how the other person makes you feel and how u make them feel just by relaxing and having a laugh together, because if they make you feel good then that is a very attractive quality. Making you feel good doesnt have to be about what they can do for you, but also what you can do for them. Perhaps they are the only ones in the office to appreciate your humour?

I think there are loads of factors for attraction, but looks and personality are the main ones that matter it seems. Some people date differently. How about an arranged marriage? the two people might not be totally attracted to each other physically to start with but over time develop a very strong bond of love and respect. It's very diverse this attraction/falling in love thing. Very Happy

 

27.08.2009, 19:44 quote

jfire

for me its the inside I hate PLP that only go for looks I love personalities netime even though looks doesn't hurt it just adds LOL my opion

 
 
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