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09.04.2007, 19:43 quote

ChiefOHara
Joined: 11 Feb 2006 Posts: 2849 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork
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true, but all im suggesting really is that you just lift your head a little.

 
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09.04.2007, 20:07 quote

elitious
Joined: 06 Apr 2007 Posts: 1264 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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ChiefOHara wrote:
true, but all im suggesting really is that you just lift your head a little.


thanks point noted i will get some new pics up soon Very Happy, any one else care to comment Embarassed

 
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09.04.2007, 20:46 quote

Anonymous

dont mean this in a bad way but just if your pic was a little lighter and you were smiling would be better

 
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09.04.2007, 21:32 quote

elitious
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i don't get offend by any of the comments, i know every one is just sharing their thoughts. thanks

 
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11.04.2007, 19:55 quote

Anonymous

elitious wrote:
hi girls and guys, i was wondering, imo i m pretty decent person but still no replys Sad. is me being an asian treated as an turn off ? Confused
hi elitious hey there are all types of people who visit flirtbox and they include people from all over the world . black ,white ,oriental ,asian and all other races. theres even disabled people that are members too . but if you are not getting any replies at the moment .please don,t think it because of your asian back ground . millions of people love asians as well as millions love other types of race . it,s not about race or colour ! if 1 million people saw your profile and ,let,s say a 1 per cent absolutely adored you then that is actually 10 thousand that adore you ................ now this is flirtbox and on average there are about just over a thousand people that visit each day..and 1per cent of that is ten and guess what .not many people get ten replies in a day .more like in a month (me at least anyway) so stay cool and i,m sure that soon your reply will come. and you will be fussing over who you like the most ....good luck in your search and remember to write something nice and complimentary to the person whom you are trying to get a reply from...may be that is your mistake ....try again

 
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11.04.2007, 20:01 quote

Anonymous

Greystone wrote:
By the way I think there are some asian singles dating sites too, exclusivly for asian people.
yes there are asian dating sites but have you ever considered the fact that his options will be limited ? maybe he would like to go out with a girl of another race . who knows

 
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12.04.2007, 19:59 quote

Chet24
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I personally think that your profile is a way of projecting your personality to the outside world, currently I’m toying with the idea of having a short but to the point profile or a long deep one in which there is something in every box. I think that you shouldn’t waste your time trying to think what other people are thinking. Pictures are important to most people so having a good one can only help boost your chances of getting a message.

As an Asian person I’ve never had any problems getting talking to people on sites like this (despite my lack of self confidence). My inbox isn’t jam packed but I do get a few replies and I’ve never experienced any form of racism either…

 
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12.04.2007, 20:55 quote

elitious
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Chet24 wrote:
I personally think that your profile is a way of projecting your personality to the outside world, currently I’m toying with the idea of having a short but to the point profile or a long deep one in which there is something in every box. I think that you shouldn’t waste your time trying to think what other people are thinking. Pictures are important to most people so having a good one can only help boost your chances of getting a message.

As an Asian person I’ve never had any problems getting talking to people on sites like this (despite my lack of self confidence). My inbox isn’t jam packed but I do get a few replies and I’ve never experienced any form of racism either…


i m confused Confused , i actually don't know, i don't even get reply to something like hi, how r u. just makes me wonder. Crying or Very sad

 
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12.04.2007, 20:59 quote

pasleptsiekare

elitious wrote:
i m confused Confused , i actually don't know, i don't even get reply to something like hi, how r u. just makes me wonder. Crying or Very sad


A tip..

'Hi, how are you' will usually get ignored because girls more than likely get that message sent to them by most guys.

Try reading their profile..pick something out of it, say something relevant, even ask a question about it.

 
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12.04.2007, 21:01 quote

coasttocoast

elitious wrote:
Chet24 wrote:
I personally think that your profile is a way of projecting your personality to the outside world, currently I’m toying with the idea of having a short but to the point profile or a long deep one in which there is something in every box. I think that you shouldn’t waste your time trying to think what other people are thinking. Pictures are important to most people so having a good one can only help boost your chances of getting a message.

As an Asian person I’ve never had any problems getting talking to people on sites like this (despite my lack of self confidence). My inbox isn’t jam packed but I do get a few replies and I’ve never experienced any form of racism either…


i m confused Confused , i actually don't know, i don't even get reply to something like hi, how r u. just makes me wonder. Crying or Very sad


Dont worry mate, your not the only confused person. What is the perfect email to send to a lady? and also do you keep your profile brief and mysterious or do you jam it full of information about yourself? Who knows?!

 
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12.04.2007, 21:02 quote

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PasleptSiekare wrote:
elitious wrote:
i m confused Confused , i actually don't know, i don't even get reply to something like hi, how r u. just makes me wonder. Crying or Very sad


A tip..

'Hi, how are you' will usually get ignored because girls more than likely get that message sent to them by most guys.

Try reading their profile..pick something out of it, say something relevant, even ask a question about it.


Gotta agree with everything you say there Laura. I absolutely detest those hi, how are you messages and generally ignore them

 
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12.04.2007, 21:03 quote

Anonymous

coasttocoast wrote:
elitious wrote:
Chet24 wrote:
I personally think that your profile is a way of projecting your personality to the outside world, currently I’m toying with the idea of having a short but to the point profile or a long deep one in which there is something in every box. I think that you shouldn’t waste your time trying to think what other people are thinking. Pictures are important to most people so having a good one can only help boost your chances of getting a message.

As an Asian person I’ve never had any problems getting talking to people on sites like this (despite my lack of self confidence). My inbox isn’t jam packed but I do get a few replies and I’ve never experienced any form of racism either…


i m confused Confused , i actually don't know, i don't even get reply to something like hi, how r u. just makes me wonder. Crying or Very sad


Dont worry mate, your not the only confused person. What is the perfect email to send to a lady? and also do you keep your profile brief and mysterious or do you jam it full of information about yourself? Who knows?!

Wow, like the new pic CtoC! You have a lovely smile

 
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12.04.2007, 21:03 quote

pasleptsiekare

Cazzabee wrote:
Gotta agree with everything you say there Laura. I absolutely detest those hi, how are you messages and generally ignore them


Exactly.

I got 5 of those today. Guess how many I answered? None. Call me ignorant if you want, but something like that just doesn't impress.

 
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12.04.2007, 21:06 quote

Anonymous

PasleptSiekare wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
Gotta agree with everything you say there Laura. I absolutely detest those hi, how are you messages and generally ignore them


Exactly.

I got 5 of those today. Guess how many I answered? None. Call me ignorant if you want, but something like that just doesn't impress.
i agree too, i mean what do you reply back... hi.. and thats it..

 
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12.04.2007, 21:08 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
PasleptSiekare wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
Gotta agree with everything you say there Laura. I absolutely detest those hi, how are you messages and generally ignore them


Exactly.

I got 5 of those today. Guess how many I answered? None. Call me ignorant if you want, but something like that just doesn't impress.
i agree too, i mean what do you reply back... hi.. and thats it..


And another one! Confused You just can't reply to every 'hi, how are you?' without repeating yourself. It becomes tedious and monotonous after a while.

 
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