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23.07.2006, 20:03 quote

devonbabe
Joined: 18 Jul 2006 Posts: 55 Location: United Kingdom, England, Devon
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lol, go for it evie, my mate only gets money for her daughter but her ex buys her a car every 3 years and insures it etc for her.
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23.07.2006, 20:03 quote

eccles
Joined: 23 Jun 2006 Posts: 2201 Location: United Kingdom, England, Somerset
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I'm origionally from edinburgh!!! so i know your laws and down here!!! i lost a 250k house my car and every penny i had saved!!! not only that i had to pay off all her debts too!!!!! i was broke for 5 years and then she went for me again and got a second slice!!!! plus the maintenance ive been paying and part of my pension too!!!!! and dont forget any partner i have also has there money assessed too whilst hers is free to enjoy what i left behind!!!!!!
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23.07.2006, 20:25 quote

Anonymous

Babe im gonna print that message out see if I can work on him lol. Eccles I do feel for you my mates dad was the same he lost everything.

 

23.07.2006, 20:27 quote

devonbabe
Joined: 18 Jul 2006 Posts: 55 Location: United Kingdom, England, Devon
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go for it evie, you got nothing to lose

Eccles, I have a male friend who had the same, only prob was he had 2 ex wives and got stung by both Confused
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23.07.2006, 21:33 quote

eccles
Joined: 23 Jun 2006 Posts: 2201 Location: United Kingdom, England, Somerset
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UT UT UT UT Shotguns at dawn is an equitable answer!!!!!!! the one consolation is ive built my own home etc and im comfortable but still would like to share it with someone!!!!!!! Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed
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24.07.2006, 06:13 quote

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It`s always very hard to get over it, Once bitten twice shy, I was lucky, in many regards, I did`nt get married, I have two wonderfull kids from my ex, and i try to keeps things on a friendly terms, But if she got half the chance she would clean me out, The laws in ireland are Mad

 

27.07.2006, 02:27 quote

lateshow
Joined: 04 Jun 2006 Posts: 1 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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wrong subject Confused

 

30.07.2006, 20:48 quote

salsalaydee
salsalaydee Joined: 30 Jan 2005 Posts: 7 Location: United Kingdom, England, Derbyshire
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hmmmm....all my exes want to kill me so i dont suppose they will be poppin in for coffee...ho hum..x Twisted Evil
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31.07.2006, 07:53 quote

Anonymous

For sure I've stayed friends with all of my ex's. But then I've never had an acrimonious break-up before...none of my relationships have ended because of infidelity or anything sinister.

Infact I was once with a girl for 7 years, we moved in together at 16 and we still get on so well she invited me to her wedding haha. but i didn't go because i didn't want to spoil things for her new man, it's his wedding day too.

 

31.07.2006, 11:12 quote

mattdaddycool
mattdaddycool Joined: 27 Jul 2006 Posts: 4 Location: United Kingdom, England, Lincolnshire
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Now this is one of the closest subjects to my heart.

I remain friends with 90% of my ex's (I even moved in with one AFTER we broke up to help her with the rent) but I do genuinely believe that it's a very touchy subject.

I find that if the other person was into you more than you were into them, the best thing you can do is leave them well alone and provide enough space for them to accept your decision.

Nobody wants an ex that they still love ringing them up to see if they fancy a banter.

 

31.07.2006, 14:40 quote

Robert27
Robert27 Joined: 24 Sep 2005 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Edinburgh
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I remained friends with one of my exes, but I havent spoken to her in a couple of years. It all depends on the situation surrounding the break up and if it was amicable or not.

 

31.07.2006, 15:50 quote

Anonymous

I was on the bus on the way home today when I saw my ex fiance out of the bus window. I've not seen him or years...not since I dumped him for cheating on me. We didn't stay friends...he got married a few weeks after we split up the the girl he was seeing before me.

 

31.07.2006, 17:33 quote

Anonymous

salsalaydee wrote:
hmmmm....all my exes want to kill me so i dont suppose they will be poppin in for coffee...ho hum..x Twisted Evil


And I was going to drop you a PM, not sure I dare now Embarassed

 

31.07.2006, 18:43 quote

tantric37
Joined: 04 Sep 2004 Posts: 141 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Gizzemoto wrote:
It`s always very hard to get over it, Once bitten twice shy, I was lucky, in many regards, I did`nt get married, I have two wonderfull kids from my ex, and i try to keeps things on a friendly terms, But if she got half the chance she would clean me out, The laws in ireland are Mad


I must have crocodile skin the amount of time I was bitten luckily I have nothing they can claim of me (renting my flat) lol,

I must have met the right ones, they interested in my stamina than my money. and managed to have no children.

 
 
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