OK, re-read it and it clearly states she said at the time that all men are b@stards.

She was dumped, I was dumped what's the difference, I just didn't class all women as b@stards.

As I stated I tried to commit suicide just how low can one get, yet I didn't call any woman a b@stard let alone all women.

We are not having a go at her, all we are saying is all men aren't/can't be b@stards.

lol well i am not going to start a war on it!!! and yes you are quite right..... not everyone is the same...... but obviuously alot more people appear to go for the same type of guy...and this in turn then labels men in general.... not fair i know...... still lets hope one day she will be able to write a poem on MEN are TERRIFIC!
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doh! men!!!!! lol lol lol
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Trace, just a thought, maybe you could help co write it??

There is aquuestion here! that begs for an answer! why do people look for a stereotype in their relationships? Surely if you've been hurt in the past by a bad boy/girl common sense dictates that you treat similar people like they hane the plague!!!! So perhaps that's why the good guys/girls never win!!!! we're victims of stereo type searching!!!!!!!!!
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i really don’t understand how anyone can be 'Friends' with your ex. With my friends, guys or girls we discuss what’s going on in our lives including, love, guys or girls, who we are dating, who we would like to date etc etc etc.. You cant possibly do that with an ex, and there is always going to be some awkwardness.

Obviously if there are kids involved then you have to be in touch and stay on 'Friendly terms' because of them, but other than that, why would you want too.. there an ex for a reason!!

I havn't spoken to my ex wife since February 1996!!! if i see her 1st then i avoid it like the plague!! in saying that i have remained friends with some exe girlfriends and yes we can discuss most things including love !!!
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Me and my ex hubby are best of friends we see each other more now that we did when we lived together lol. We do have 2 kids and kept it friendly for them but I must say it has worked out better than I had ever thought.

I am just going through a divorce with my wife of almost 19 years. Things are very amicable. We talk more now than ever....
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Try and keep it that way!!!! it's far better to be friends than enemies!!!!! i was married 12 years to a b**l breaker and she wanted to carry on controlling me after the divorce!!!! expected more and more money etc!!!!
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Too true eccles although she would only get what she was entitled too. I dont know the law where you are but I only get money each month for the kids and thats it, nothing for little old me lol. Saying that though he is good to me, if I need anything he will go out of his way to get it for me (im still wondering if I can get him to buy me a new car) pmsl.