I seem to be attracting guys who are players or those who are already taken. Why on earth would a person mess around behind another persons back? If they are doing that, why be with them?

There is loads of us good guys, it all depends on how you look after us, cuts both ways ehh

conflicted interests... they want to be with someone who makes them happy but they want all the trappings of being single and free minded too.

and perhaps they know who they are with is not THE ONE, afterall if she was the one they wouldnt play away from home. i mean why have hamburger when there's steak at home.

mmmm steak.... oh im hungry now! dammit.

very true, luckily I find out about their rep before I get too involved.

I don't think its entirely a case of reputation, though I do understand where you are coming from there, as I myself would be wary of someone who had been a pillock in the past. I genuinely believe that decent people are out there, its just a case that sometimes the more alluring personalities can overshadow us with their 'dangerous side'. But good luck for finding the special one, because I could do with some of that luck myself - the joys of adapting to a new town....

Honestly ladies there are genuine and nice guys out here!!! we tend to get shoved into the background a bit though!!! less of the hamburger and more a chatteux briand!!! I must admit i tend not to message younger ladies because i feel im a bit long in the tooth! however im always happy to talk to anyone!!!! i read somewhere that it takes meeting 346 people before you find someone who is just right!!!! well 65 views of my profile that leaves another 281 before i get a message
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

Well according to the book i read its true!!!! 120 reincarnations hmmmmmm might be a bit optimistic!!!!! I'm 49 and i met a big zero too!!!!! cmon ladies prove us wrong eh!!!! pop in and say hi sometime!!!!!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!