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Home >> Dating >> Are Men Scared of Confident Women !!!!!
01.06.2007, 17:02 quote
[quote="Daspikey"]Exactly I dont want to have to tell a woman to wash the dishes or Iron my shirt before doing me dinner...
she should do that on her own.
God never thought i would find you x 
01.06.2007, 21:08 quote
| elitious wrote: |
| to answer ur question, will be comfy if some one acts like u do, if u say yes then fair enough any one can cope with it if u can, if u say no then ever one likes democracy |
Eh?
01.06.2007, 22:03 quote
I have nothing against confident women
I think every man should own one 
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02.06.2007, 07:23 quote
I like a man with similar traits to myself.
In the words of this little ditty:
Don't follow behind me, I may not lead
don't walk ahead of me, I may not follow
walk beside me... etc (can't remember it all.
ie.. I like equal footing. I want to be there for someone when they need me and them to be there for when I need someone, but most of all, to work together.
As for the bedroom, there's nothing quite like a tumble as we fight for dominance over the other 
07.06.2007, 10:30 quote
Equality is good.. ok there are times when I would default to the woman or vice versa but thats just natural..
"As for the bedroom, there's nothing quite like a tumble as we fight for dominance over the other "
Who says it has to be in the bedroom
07.06.2007, 13:51 quote
| Daspikey wrote: |
| Equality is good.. ok there are times when I would default to the woman or vice versa but thats just natural..
"As for the bedroom, there's nothing quite like a tumble as we fight for dominance over the other " Who says it has to be in the bedroom |
"Variety is the spice of life"
07.06.2007, 21:30 quote
Id prefer a confident girl to a shy one, but then again I feel really awkward talking to someone who is shy or low on confidence, its harder to get a good conversation out of them and I always feel as if I've said or done something wrong for some obscure reason.
08.06.2007, 06:48 quote
| redoctober wrote: | ||
"Variety is the spice of life" |
the spice must flow.
08.06.2007, 11:32 quote
| PasleptSiekare wrote: |
| Some men mistake a lot of confidence for arrogance..don't know why. |
I think its because alot of men, not all before you all start on me, dont expect women to be confident and have there own mind xx
08.06.2007, 12:12 quote
| annmarie5988 wrote: | ||
I think its because alot of men, not all before you all start on me, dont expect women to be confident and have there own mind xx |
I would say it's nearer 40% of guys, not a lot of them that expect that.
A lot of females wish they had more confidence.
11.06.2007, 16:34 quote
| PasleptSiekare wrote: |
| Some men mistake a lot of confidence for arrogance..don't know why. |
I beg to differ on this one. Some women think that confidence means arrogance. Personally I love strong willed women, but like so much in life it's all about the delivery.
There are plenty of women out there who think that being an arsehole and arguing every single point in conversation just for the sake of it, or being 'independent' to the point of flat-out insulting, is what confidence is all about. I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but it's way more subtle than that. If you behave like that then you're just being a twat.
Your womanhood is not at threat if someone buys you a drink, a meal or opens a door for you. Some people just like to treat others with a bit of respect and make them feel good into the bargain. They're not trying to belittle you, buy you, take the vote away from you or keep you at home with the kids. Men don't have much of an outlet for affection (because we're men, duh) so if you deny them the basics because you're 'confident' then who ends up looking the fool? Especially if you like them. Show me a militant feminist and I'll show you a spinster or bitter dyke in waiting. People have died for women's rights and you throw a fucking tantrum because some bloke offered to pay for a meal? Grow up.
Every bloke likes to be tested and relishes a challenge (if he's honest), but sometimes it's better to just cut your losses and get the marry out of Dodge. Women who fall into that category aren't after a challenge and a bit of mental stimulation, they're just after someone they can manipulate. And that my friends is certainly not confidence.
Strong women are great. Women who get their rocks off on mind games (not the nice kind) and trying to belittle men aren't.
11.06.2007, 17:11 quote
| chikhai wrote: |
|
I beg to differ on this one. Some women think that confidence means arrogance. Personally I love strong willed women, but like so much in life it's all about the delivery. There are plenty of women out there who think that being an arsehole and arguing every single point in conversation just for the sake of it, or being 'independent' to the point of flat-out insulting, is what confidence is all about. I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but it's way more subtle than that. If you behave like that then you're just being a twat. Strong women are great. Women who get their rocks off on mind games (not the nice kind) and trying to belittle men aren't. |
I agree. I also think confidence, for the most part, shouldn't be intimidating or scary, but a strong & persuasive force. I'd regard myself as a pretty confident person a lot of the time, but I'd be gutted if it intimidated someone, unless that person was trying to intimidate or bully me.
09.09.2007, 22:42 quote
| doctorfaust wrote: | ||
Direct honesty is a quality I look for in a woman, so it certainly wouldn't scare me off. But she has to be willing to accept the same in return. I also very strongly prefer assertive women with (well-composed) opinions. Nothing more annoying than when I ask for an opinion or preference and she just sheepishly says "oh, I don't care, you choose." Women who are assertive, take initiative, independent, and don't rely on their man to shepherd them through everything are far more attractive than the alternative. |
Nice to hear men like their women to have brains behind their faces! I just think it funny when men say this is what they want and when they get it, they twist the qualities around and make said women seem horrible due to a lack of these very qualities in their own personalities. That is always my favorite! There is a vast difference between ego and strength or gregariousness versus forthrightness. It seems it is hard for some men to differentiate between the twain. It can make those very commodities seem horrific when one is dealing with someone who is insecure and unable to be honest. UGH!
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