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Home >> Dating >> Approaching people you like in the street
05.11.2007, 11:53 quote
Greystone wrote: | ||
By the way I used to have a flat and occasionally work in the form of government schemes but still couldn't get a woman. It was for this reason that I moved to London to increase my chances of meeting more women. And I do consider it a high priority to get a girlfriend as being alone with no one to love is making me feel very depressed and heart broken. |
I told you what to do to find a lasting relationship. Go places where you can find someone with mutual attraction rather then trolling the streets hoping to get lucky. Which obviously isn't working for you.
I can imagine on the net you probably try too hard, when chatting to someone.
12.11.2007, 13:23 quote
Greystone wrote: |
I never used to actively go out looking for women to get off with when I was a lot younger and guess what? I never met any new women who I didn't already know and never got any offers of dates. |
That may be so, but (correct me if I'm wrong) it seems like you haven't had much luck with actively going out and practicing pick-up routines either. Taking up a hobby or class is always good because then you already have something in common with people you meet there.
Greystone wrote: |
I do consider it a high priority to get a girlfriend as being alone with no one to love is making me feel very depressed and heart broken. |
It concerns me that this is your top priority in life. If I were in your position, I'd try to find somewhere to live and work before thinking about a relationship. You will be an altogether more attractive prospect to women if you are secure and confident in yourself and in your own life first.
13.11.2007, 22:56 quote
If you want somebody to love you, you have to first love yourself.
I can't really beleive that you have so much effort for garbage, but no effort in sorting your own life out.
Get yourself somewhere to live, try to find a job and establish a normal life for yourself.
You obviously work hard at this, so perhaps your efforts would be more productive if you concentrated on other things like life rather than fantasy!
I'm not having a go at you Greystone, I kinda like you, you're funny.......
14.11.2007, 23:59 quote
Greystone wrote: | ||
Also these pick up techniques work for most guys who try them. Like I said I think they would have worked much sooner for me had I not got awful looks. And I think they will work for me eventually. |
Sorry, I didn't mean to have a go or anything, was just trying to help.
I give up!
15.11.2007, 09:47 quote
shirazkhan wrote: | ||
*cues music and bobs head* Another one bites the dust Another one bites the dust And another one gone, and another one gone Another one bites the dust Hey, he might get you too Another one bites the dust |
Heh heh.. you helped me to see the light
15.11.2007, 12:01 quote
Greystone wrote: |
I moved to London because I couldn't get a woman in Stoke and thought there would be more opportunities for meeting women in London. |
Oh dear, how misguided you are. When a woman finds you haven't got a job and you live in a squat, tent, cardboard box, whatever, they'll be off faster than you can say Seduction. If you have no self worth and no desire to better yourself in life you won't get anyone. End of.
15.11.2007, 12:24 quote
I'm sure there will be women that wont think that way Bex. But the bloke obviously has issues that go beyond the scope of dating and this site.
15.11.2007, 17:59 quote
Greystone wrote: | ||||
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Oh, I see, what you mean is you're a bum, sorry, I didn't realise that as well as insult any female that can read, you also insult the many people who actually live on the streets through no fault of their own.
I thought that Tom Cruise wa f'kkin nuts, but you my friend are a real deal Space Cadet.........
08.01.2008, 20:51 quote
Greystone wrote: |
I have found that bars are shit for meeting women, the women there don't seem to want to talk to you at all. I manage to get far more long running conversations started with women in the daytime than in bars. In bars women are all in groups and most of the time if you try to talk to them they tell you to get lost. |
sometimes you dont need much in the way of words, some of my best conversations with women in bars/clubs hardly involved words, body language was much more expressive
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