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01.11.2007, 17:04 quote

Anonymous

Is that a joke? I'm not sure if you are being serious or if you are just fishing for compliments!
I'm a bloke so what women like as far as looks go is beyond me, but I wouldn't say you are ugly.
The image you project IS what matters and the kind of person you are, if peole say shit like that to you, then you want to change friends mate.
I'm no George Clooney myself if you have'nt noticed, but I don't get or wouldn't take people saying that to me.
I have said this before somewhere else I'm sure, but ugly is a nasty word, but it is often short lived, when you get to know someone, even after 5 minutes, the way you look at them changes also.
Everyone finds good looks an attraction, it is only natural, but it is not the ONLY thing that is attractive.........

 

01.11.2007, 17:19 quote

Anonymous

I promised myself I wouldn't get drawn into this anymore, and not sure if you are serious or having a laugh greystone, but here's my very last input on you dilemma with women.

Firstly, I AM A WOMAN AND I SAY YOU ARE VERY GOOD LOOKING!!!! Or does my opinion not count?

Secondly. ANYBODY WHO CALLS YOU UGLY IS WRONG AND ITS THEM WHATS THE UGLY ONES ON THE INSIDE FOR TELLING YOU SUCH NASTY LIES!!!

I'm outta here.........

 

01.11.2007, 19:09 quote

Anonymous

Blimey, he gets more compliments then me, don't think I've ever had any...I am in fact the ugly one on the site Sad

 

01.11.2007, 19:14 quote

Anonymous

Jeggae -- We are all each and every one of us *Beautiful* in one way or another!!

 

01.11.2007, 19:18 quote

Anonymous

RocketGirl wrote:
Jeggae -- We are all each and every one of us *Beautiful* in one way or another!!


lol....proves a point Sad

 

01.11.2007, 19:26 quote

Anonymous

Jeggae wrote:
Blimey, he gets more compliments then me, don't think I've ever had any...I am in fact the ugly one on the site Sad


Would it help if I tell you I think you are hot?

 

01.11.2007, 21:39 quote

Anonymous

megalone wrote:
Jeggae wrote:
Blimey, he gets more compliments then me, don't think I've ever had any...I am in fact the ugly one on the site Sad


Would it help if I tell you I think you are hot?


Not really...mainly because I know you're joking Wink

 

01.11.2007, 21:41 quote

Anonymous

you never know.........

 

02.11.2007, 08:56 quote

Greystone
Greystone Joined: 28 Mar 2007 Posts: 416 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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megalone wrote:
Is that a joke? I'm not sure if you are being serious or if you are just fishing for compliments!
No I am not fishing for compliments. I am just totally fed up of women showing no interest in me and rejecting all the time everytime I approach them! Mad

I can't get anywhere with women, I was out yesterday around central London doing direct approaches but didn't get anywhere! Whenever a woman does agree to exchange contact details with me then they never get in touch.

I do tons of approaches to women but don't seem to get anywhere so it must bad looks that are stopping me from getting a woman.

 

02.11.2007, 14:52 quote

Anonymous

Greystone wrote:
megalone wrote:
Is that a joke? I'm not sure if you are being serious or if you are just fishing for compliments!
No I am not fishing for compliments. I am just totally fed up of women showing no interest in me and rejecting all the time everytime I approach them! Mad

I can't get anywhere with women, I was out yesterday around central London doing direct approaches but didn't get anywhere! Whenever a woman does agree to exchange contact details with me then they never get in touch.

I do tons of approaches to women but don't seem to get anywhere so it must bad looks that are stopping me from getting a woman.


Maybe they can just sense that you arnt behaving naturally towards them? Rolling Eyes

Try just being yourself and stop quoting pick up lines and do what comes naturally....

 

02.11.2007, 18:23 quote

Greystone
Greystone Joined: 28 Mar 2007 Posts: 416 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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scottie69 wrote:
Maybe they can just sense that you arnt behaving naturally towards them? Rolling Eyes Try just being yourself and stop quoting pick up lines and do what comes naturally....
I don't use pick up lines. That shows your ignorance of the pick up community. The pick up community use pick up routines not individual lines. A pick up routine is about everything from fashion, body language, speaking style and energy level.

One major problem I have had is that nearly all the women I meet seem to be attached.

 

02.11.2007, 18:46 quote

chikhai
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Maybe the type of women you're meeting can smell the insincerity?

Try being less of a mobile phone shop assistant.

 

03.11.2007, 17:56 quote

Greystone
Greystone Joined: 28 Mar 2007 Posts: 416 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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chikhai wrote:
Maybe the type of women you're meeting can smell the insincerity? Try being less of a mobile phone shop assistant.
No that is a load of rubbish. You are not me and don't know what I have been through women often reject me before I have said half a sentence. Women just don't fancy me because I am so ugly! I have been rejected for decades now ever since I first started trying to get dates with girls back when I was a kid at school. Sad

 

03.11.2007, 21:19 quote

Anonymous

[Women just don't fancy me because I am so ugly!]

Well greystone i've said it before and i'll say it again.....
You are presumably on here to hopefully meet a female?
I am a female and I have told you umpteen times that I think you are very good looking!
Even men have tried to reassure of that too.
You don't listen.
So, maybe when you approach ladies they notice that you are not listening to a word they say, and are missing cues from them?
Personally anyone who talks AT me gets short shrift from me.
I know my mobile phone number off by heart backwards (starting after the 07) and on the rare occasion a chap has chatted me up in the street etc and is quite clearly so far up his own bottom with his spiel that i give him a false number because i dont want to be rude and tell him to take a hike.
Methinks my love that until you start listening to and believing what people say to you, you dont stand a snowflakes chance in hell of 'meeting the right lady'. Until then you wont get lucky cuz you'll be too busy saying and doing all the stuff you've 'learned'.

 

04.11.2007, 13:52 quote

maggiex35
maggiex35 Joined: 07 Oct 2006 Posts: 154 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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I've been reading this and I didn't realise there were guys who would spend hours out their days trawling the streets looking for targets!!! It kinda freaks me out.

I normally would speak to anyone but after reading this I'd probably think twice if a random guy came up and started talking to me.

I'd have to say to Greystone and I know it's probably been said before but there is more to life than finding a date. Get a hobby that doesn't involve stalking women and you'll probably meet someone

 
 
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