Only joined yesterday but have been lurking on the forums and they seem the best way to go...

Well, here's me: 29 swf living in Edinburgh, not entirely sure what I'm after as I've been out of the game for so long (I have a 3.5 yr old kid and never had a night off until he was...well, nearly 3.5!)

My good points? I'm fun; like to try new things (NB: this doesn't necessarily mean bukkake); and not a mentalist.

My bad points? Can't make Fri or Sat nights!

Looking for, above all, someone who's kind and a good laugh. Not into camera sex or phone sex or cyber sex or dressing up as your favourite porn star. I like the simple stuff.

Have tried a couple of other (paying) sites, one a proper 'relationship' one and one for casual meets. Trouble with the former was that it's so hard to get past the first couple of emails/msn chats. Trouble with the latter was that it's a complete meat market! Ended up chickening out of both of them

Please, *someone* (anyone!) ask me out before I hit 30...you have until September....

hey and welcome to the boards!!!! and im quit sure your going to get a few messages after that introduction
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Hiya and welcome to FB....i too hit the big 30 this year and hope that mr right is out there somewhere too

I would of course be a complete gentleman and say yes and offer my services, why not try it and then....

Thanks for the warm welcome!

30 is scary; I'm not in a mad panic, "help I've got to get married" or anything, just pondering the fact that (possibly) the best years of my life have just passed without having anyone special to share them with (except the child of course, but I'm not counting people who don't kiss with tongues).

maybe you should try asking some blokes out, at least that way you get to choose someone who you feel might be more suited to you perhaps? its just a thought, rather than wade through loads of messages from guys who are just gonna ssk you for one thing. not that im saying thats all you get on here but there is rather alot like that.

There just aint many nice, single blokes in Scotland...ive decided

How would Glasgow be for men? Got a good single friend up there, he just hasnt admitted that he should try the internet (I think I owe him for finishing his Glenlivet last night, and his Tobermorey, tennants, and Glengoyne in that order, so got to say he is one of the nicest single men you could meet who dont contribute to the forum here)

Not really into asking blokes out...I'm shy...

Actually I did a couple of months ago, and he said no. Enough to put me off for the next 4 yrs, probably!

Cazzabee I don't know about Fife but in Edinburgh every third guy I see is HOT (maybe it's my hormones I don't know)...that's what makes it so frustrating...of course we're not to know who's single, who's not...a moot point for me as I don't get out much

i've messaged a few guys some I get replies from some I don't, I always reckon nothing ventured nothing gained

welcome to the boards mewler, now if you weren't like 200 miles away, id ask you on a date in a heart beat
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