I'm not sure what's wrong with me mentally, but I have this weird thing;

Basically when I'm really interested in a girl and try and get them to like me I get bored of them as soon as I can see that they like me back. What the hell is this I really try hard to find things I like about them once they're interested in me but I struggle even though there probably is a lot to like.

Please help me.. and share similar problems.. implying hopefully I'm not the only one.

It might be called "youth" and pass with "age". Or another thing could be you didn't actually find a special someone and you're a playa. Nd nyways what ye'r talkin about is a game. For peeps havin' this problem it's recommended they find someone who plays the game better than they do so the other person won't actually ever give in completely and keep things spiced up.
That's all I could come up with. I used to have the same prob. Don't know if I'm havin' it anymore, but it didn't show up in a while now so that's why I said maybe it's just "youth" speakin.
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you like the chase, the competition of it, but once the chase is over you get bored.
as for suggestions, well you could go for more challenging women or try and focus on something else about that woman that you need to find out

I'm the same, like the chase but not interested once i've got what i want unless the man is totally unavailable then its even better. Maybe one day he'll be mine!

I'm concerned that only girls have replied am I the only guy like this on here...

Seriously though I think I just need an assertive girl to straighten me out

cant say i have notice myself doing that.....are you saying that you dont actually have any kind of relationship with these girls who like you? do you not sleep with them?

I don't often sleep with them, mainly owing to the fact that I get bored so quickly that the relationship lasts around 2 or 3 weeks

I'm probably being a bit daft but doesn't that just mean you find yourself attracted, get an idea in your head that she's for you, go for it, then when you get to relax and look at the wider picture, you find you've overestimated what you had in common. I don't know what to call it, maybe love at first sight or something a bit longer lol. So basically maybe you get carried away and think there's more than there is? If it's not then I don't know but maybe try giving it more time with a girl, see if it picks back up, really stick it out unless she tells you where to go obviously lol. I dunno you've probably stuck it out. It's an interesting one, I think I know where you're coming from.

Interesting.
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Hormones are a crazy thing.............
in time you might get better??
And you may also pick on a girl u actually like!!
sounds like no one is getting 'hurt' as its only 2-3 week flings so keep on mate and u might strike it lucky...................
but u could be seen as a bit of a player if u keep flitting about like that!!

(just my two penneth like)

it seems to me your being honest, just wait and that girl will come to you. maybe their just not your type

Something else that hasn't been mentioned.
Before you go after a girl, you don't know her.
Maybe it's just a case of you finding that as you get to know more about the person, you realise they aren't right for you.
There's nothing wrong with being picky!
I think it's actually a little deceitful to lead someone on if you realise early on that there are things about them you don't like.