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30.05.2007, 19:37 quote

Anonymous

Short men can be big dicks too Wink

 

31.05.2007, 23:30 quote

samatron
samatron Joined: 24 May 2007 Posts: 219 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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I don't really see where shallow comes into it.
When you are attracted to someone, you are attracted by physcial characteristics and by personality. Just because you have a taste for certain physical characteristics (in this case height), doesn't mean that that person you qualifies doesn't still have to qualify by their personality.
eg
you wouldn't date a short guy
you wouldn't date a tall guy with a bad personality
you may date a tall guy with a personality you like

It's the personality bit which means that you aren't shallow.
Sorry to the short guy with the good personality, find another woman! There are another 2.5 billion to choose from.
Short men do OK in the love stakes, so don't feel guility for not fancying them! Sylvester Stallone (5'8"), Neil Strauss (5'6"), Hervé Villechaize (3') etc

I read a post about a guy who went speed dating. He said that he liked all his dates and put a tick next to each name on the list. He wondered why no one picked him. I'd say he was the shallow one, as he was prepared to put up with anything that came along. To actually state that you have a preferential criteria for mating is surely a good thing?

There, that's cleared that up. Next question!

 

31.05.2007, 23:31 quote

samatron
samatron Joined: 24 May 2007 Posts: 219 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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I don't really see where shallow comes into it.
When you are attracted to someone, you are attracted by physcial characteristics and by personality. Just because you have a taste for certain physical characteristics (in this case height), doesn't mean that that person you qualifies doesn't still have to qualify by their personality.
eg
you wouldn't date a short guy
you wouldn't date a tall guy with a bad personality
you may date a tall guy with a personality you like

It's the personality bit which means that you aren't shallow.
Sorry to the short guy with the good personality, find another woman! There are another 2.5 billion to choose from.
Short men do OK in the love stakes, so don't feel guility for not fancying them! Sylvester Stallone (5'8"), Neil Strauss (5'6"), Hervé Villechaize (3') etc

I read a post about a guy who went speed dating. He said that he liked all his dates and put a tick next to each name on the list. He wondered why no one picked him. I'd say he was the shallow one, as he was prepared to put up with anything that came along. To actually state that you have a preferential criteria for mating is surely a good thing? Some guys have a thing for say Asian women. That doesn't make them shallow!

There, that's cleared that up. Next question!

 

01.06.2007, 20:18 quote

Anonymous

MrGoodCat wrote:
it does some posistions just wouldnt work ...what dont look at me like im the freak you all thought it too.


I agree, having been in the situation before

 

12.06.2007, 18:13 quote

Shyka
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 17 Location: Canada, Alberta, Red Deer
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I don't know why but I have the same disslike. I don't like shorter guys it is just akward some how. I am sure your not shallow, and I hope that I am not shallow just because of a prefference. Smile

 
 
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