If a bloke is drop dead gorgeous, a millionaire, and he was under 5'9 at the very least and thats pushing it, i wudnt date him!!! Does this make me shallow, im 5'11 and and cud't bring myself 2 walk down the road hand in hand down with a short bloke??? Will every1 look at us if i did? shud i even care? prob not, but still i cannt do it!!!!!!!

The short answer is yes.

sniff, sniff!!! i thought i was!! how do i change???

The only answer I can think of is to fall head over heels in love with a 5'2" bloke and gut it out.

Sorry if that isn't very helpful, but I think the only way you can change that way is to be prestented with that problem. If it isn't an immediate problem, there is no real need or pressure to change.

I'm a cats whisker under 6ft tall

Both my serious relationships have been with guys a bit shorter than me

Height Doesn't bother me in the slightest...I would rather he was kind, caring and honest than a few inches taller than me.....


Alot of guys wont date taller girls tho.....

So the shallowness of which you speak goes both ways!
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hey hugglies we shud b models!!!! i did go out with a 5'10 bloke 4 a while so i cant b that shallow, can i?? although saying that i did go out with a boring 6'4 fireman, just coz he was a fireman and he was 6'4, and he was nice 2 look at?????

i wouldnt say just becuase you cant date short men your shallow, if your not attracted then your not attracted
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I know a few women like this, I think it's because they think the guy can't protect them so well if he is shorter. I think it's a psychological thing more than it is being shallow.

I have gone out with short women, two of them were a touch over 5ft (5ft 1" max ) and I'm somewhere close to 6ft (5ft 10/11" or something) and I've always found that really cool I loved the fact that, standing up, they had to look up to kiss me and when they cuddled me their head rested on my chest. There's something very sexy about that, for me.

I'd still go out with a tall woman, though, but I have to admit, I've not gone out with one as tall as me. They've always been a little shorter at least, but that's not been a conscious decision.

yes!!! i am startin 2 feel better now, so its not really my fault i find tall men sexy, and its mostly coz i want them 2 b able 2 protect me, never thought of that!!! so im not shallow after all!!!

ask yourself if you notice it much when you see a couple where the woman is taller than the man, how does it make you feel when you see that? personally i honestly dont notice it much and when i do see such a couple i dont really think much of it, just clock it, then carry on. theres nowt wrong with it. perhaps you should seek the opinion of some shorter men in here...wheres cheify?
i dont think its shallow, more of a self image thing.

oooo, i just had a little thought 2 myself while i was washing up, (i hate washin up, i broke the god damn dish washer!!!) that all the men in my life r really tall, they all range between 6'2 -6'6, so mayb its not my fault and im conditioned 2 like tall men now?????

it is matter of personal choice, if u don't like them then don't. i don't think that makes u shallow in anyway. it is a free world so as long as u don't hurt any one , do as u please

I am 5'6 and like tall men,though i have been out with guys the same height as me it doesnt feel the same.

jajo, i totally agree, its just sooooo much better with a tall guy, even better when they a bit beefy too, but where r they all???? they r all bout 5'7 and skinny in Littlehampton, y is the world so cruel 2 me!!! if u r a tall guy and u happen 2 b readin this then send me message, if ur over 6'2 u r almost guaranted a reply! specical if ur a fireman, policeman or in any other type of uniform

omg, i am shallow!!!!!

I think everyone has their preferances and tall blokes are one of yours.... your quite tall too so i wouldnt say your shallow....... i have a thing about tallness too and im only 5ft 2, ive never been out with a short bloke but id like to think if i emt someone perfect and he was short id still fall for him!

dont worry about it hun, Just date who you please..... now let me get on my search for rich guys.......no one can call me shallow! (joke before anyone starts on one )