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26.10.2006, 19:12 quote

philbertmcpleb
philbertmcpleb Joined: 17 Oct 2006 Posts: 8 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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do people think it is too much for me to ask as a bi guy that i could try and find a bi girlfriend as well?

i don't think i am, but one or two of my friends have said that it's too much to be looking for.

the reason i say i'd like a bi gf is so that they understand how i feel about sex and the hopefully we can trust each other enough to "play" a little.

please let me know what you think

 

27.10.2006, 17:29 quote

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wow if mandy was here she could answer that, but for straight people its hard to answer..i dont think i would want to be in that kind of relationship myself but that is my opinion...u hve to do what u feel is best for you and what is in your heart

 

27.10.2006, 17:40 quote

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philbertmcpleb wrote:
do people think it is too much for me to ask as a bi guy that i could try and find a bi girlfriend as well?

i don't think i am, but one or two of my friends have said that it's too much to be looking for.

the reason i say i'd like a bi gf is so that they understand how i feel about sex and the hopefully we can trust each other enough to "play" a little.

please let me know what you think


I can see how you'd feel more comfortable with someone who's sexuality runs along the same as yours but there are some straight women out there that are very open minded.

If by 'playing' you mean threesomes or more, don't automatically assume tho' that she'll be comfortable seeing you with a guy.

If you mean 'play' as in an open relationship, a bi girl is unlikely to be any different to a straight girl. We are all different, some are happy in open relationships with multiple partners, others, whatever their orientation are one-on-one people.

Good luck with whatever may happen in the future tho'.

 

27.10.2006, 20:22 quote

philbertmcpleb
philbertmcpleb Joined: 17 Oct 2006 Posts: 8 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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i know that whoever i end up with may not want me to sleep with guys but as long as they understand how i feel about it that is the main thing. i would never cheat on someone so if they said no then i wouldn't

 
 
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