Well after an 18 year relationship I'm a bit new to this dating business (and the internet wasn't even around then). In fact I'm feeling like a virgin all over again. At the moment I'm not looking for anything serious or long term -- a good time and hopefully some good love afterwards with mutual respect would do me fine.

I'm not the kind of man who would jump into bed with anyone (fair play to you if you are), I have to fancy the person and there has to be a spark. Now, whether that person is older or younger shouldn't really matter, especially for a short or even one night relationship.

Looking through the profiles on this site I've seen women I fancied then thought, no she's too young for me, she'd think I was a dirty old man if I sent her a message. Then I might see a profile of a younger woman saying that she's open to new things and just wants no strings fun etc, then I might think why not?

If I was ever to settle down with someone I doubt she would be much younger than me but in the mean time if the opportunity arises and we're both up for it, why not?

i am now looking for a nubile 16 year old that i can knock up and live off her child tax credit

Can we go in your car i will have to to yours :lol

age dont matter as long as they are legal of course,
chemistry is what matters

^^yes kind of what I said but put more succinctly

I think as you get older, the age gap between two people can increase without any real issues. The only problem with age gaps really, is people being in different stages of their lives or maturity - something especially apparent in youth. But then of course, it's all dependant on the person, rather than the age.

My point? There's nothing wrong with it, as long as it's legal and you're both fine with it. Just ignore the nasty social ooo's and ahh's.

[size=18]My EX was 12 years older than me but was much more like a teenager. A first it was great but after 3 years of marriage and 1 child later - god it bugged the hell out of me!!! [/size]

Nice to see my old thread is still going Cor, have I really been here that long?