1. Sense of humour - hes got to want to laugh and act like a big kid sometimes - i.e. building snowmen etc lol

2. Passion for the outdoors and is not afraid to try anything new - read into it what you will!!

3. someone who is honest - fidelity

4. caring

5. Able to listen

loads more but you only said 5!!!

I like the outdoors, I often drive with the windows open in my car.

You ladies all seem to want someone with a sense of humour, maybe Im in luck then, I think I have one somewhere.

Ok the first thing i look for in a man is.....A BRAIN...not many off them about.....second......A SENSE OFF HUMOUR...seems men lack it at times....thirdly......PASSION......they got it...but it only seems to last 2 mins.....fourth...TEETH...i dont want to wake up next to a bloke whose false teeth are staring at me...and fifth....A FAT WALLET....if they aint got the other four u can piss em off by spending all there money!!!!

All your gonna get with that question is girls own individual opinions i'm afraid. Everyone is different with their expectations. My list for what i want in a woman can be endless and constantly change, depending on who it is with and what they want and mainly if 2 people are compatable

ol, that may be true to an extent but you do get some common themes:

sense of humour
smile
confidence

all seem to be popular. its funny how it doesn't differ too far from guy's expectations! i think Sparebuttons spot on, for me lifes about surprises, by having a list as long as your arm you run the risk of missing out someone who's perfect for you. thats hard enough with luck and timing doing thier best to sabotage
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You mean there are equally important reasons other than being able to satisfy me sexually??????

down to earth
honesty,
nice eyes
a nice smile
a guy who can make me laugh

5 most important things in kathy land....
1) ability to hold a good conversation, must b interesting and amusing!
2) not be afraid of public affection (i mean holding hands and hugging, not sex on a bus)
3) a good smile on a nice face that makes me feel warm and fuzzy when i c him
4) being able to make me laugh at myself, and being able to laugh at himself.
5) intelligence.

these dont go in this order, this is the order i thought of them in. if u fit all the points apply within.

1) ability to hold a good conversation, must b interesting and amusing!
2) not be afraid of public affection
3) a good smile on a nice face that makes me feel warm and fuzzy when i c him
4) being able to make me laugh at myself, and being able to laugh at himself.
5) intelligence.
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well first thing i look for in a guy is obviously good looks.... he won't capture my gaze if he's not good looking.(i like eyebrows lol and i'm a sucker for a shaved head...failing that, short dark hair)
second thing is being able to hold a convo.... make me laugh you can't go wrong.
third thing is honesty...i can't abide lying.
fourth is generosity.... no scrooges please.
and fifth... if he has all those above qualities.... good in bed!!!

IM VERY GOOD IN BED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well hiyanapa if i didn't know better i'd say you had a massive crush on my good self.... but since you aint added me to msn STILL perhaps i should file you as a "lost cause"?