So recently I met a girl. Once in a while I recognized that she is looking at me. But when I turned my head to her she looked away (with a little smile on her face). Newly I recognized her bestgirlfriend look at me in the same way as well (as if both have talked about me - but of course I don't know for sure). Well, I started emailing this girl (the girl not her friend). After she emailed me back I wrote her again. But then she stopped suddenly writing me back, after I asked her, how long she's gonna to stay there (a simple and harmless question I think). (<-we both are abroad in different countries now)

What I have to mention is, that she has shown this ambivalent bahavior to me a lot of times. Sometimes she acts touchy, then she acts nicely. But, as far as I've noticed, she doesn't display this bahavior to her friends/ acquaintances.

Furthermore she sometimes acts intentionally repellent. A few times she doesn't greet me. Yeah! She just pass me without deigning to look at me. But when I ask her a favor she is willingly to do it. Whats that for a person?!? C'mon women reveal us your secret!

What do you think what kind of girl is? Why she is acting like this?

Thanks in advance!

I bet she is young! Sounds like she is trying out her newly found womanly powers on her captive audience!

maybe she is just shy, or is unsure of if she even wants to talk to you or not, but either way, if she doesn't care to message you back then I would just try and forget her and stop wasting your time. Find someone else that is interested and wants to get to know you!

Actually on reading this i did think that perhaps she could be very shy, but probably inexperienced.
The best course of action is just ask her if she likes you, there are two possible outcomes, either she says yes she does, or she says no she doesnt. Either answer isnt going to kill you, but will probably clear up all the confusion you have about her actions, so just do it!

Well, I perceive her as a very nice sweet girl. The-girl-next-door-type of girl. So yeah, I would agree she's a shy person but not extremely shy. She can be funny, counterattack anyone, gives lectures very well and confidently. So I would say shy yes, but more in the manner of reticent.

Ahh...BTW: She is older than 20.

Thx for answering, hopefully you're gonna give me more hints in order to understand this girl better. Bye!

inconsistent behaviour is possibly a sign that as much as she might like you, for whatever reason isn't into putting in the time required to get to know you better. Unfortunately, you might just be the guy she talks to when she hasnt got anything better to do. Whatever it is, when you're putting in effort and she isnt, its time too give up.

As far as shyness goes, online communication removes a lot of that so it ought not to be an issue.
It would be more consistent to talk online and ignore you in rl.