one of the mods has probably scared them all away

As you may know I've now got a new lap top and can access Flirtbox once more, to my delight, and yes, it is a bit faster but just how many users have to be active for the almost blank screen to arrive befroe my eyes telling me there art TOO MANY USERS!
Not only is it disappointing but sometimes I can be in the middle of answering/reading and sending mail when the dreaded message pops up

235 members online
333 visitors online
__________
568 people online


and on every other click near enough i'm getting the "Too many users!" error message for a couple of minutes...

yep me to, or a error page - Its driving me nuts

Same here you guys, doing my nut in as well Claudia ............

Come on Toby whats happening ????

Sorry, I was away for the weekend.

I have noticed it is some database configuration.....the database uses more and more memory...and once it uses additional memory from disk the website becomes really slow....until the limit has been reached and the the website stalls.

As a MySQL specialist costs GBP 4495 which I can't afford right now, I need to learn the guts of a MyISAM Engine in order to be able to fix the problem myself....

http://www.mysql.com/consulting/packaged/performance.html

But after that I will fix all YOUR database problems (if you have any) as well, and for only 4494 GBP (for 3 days and then I will only be working for 1 week per year )

Ok - Apology accepted I havent a clue what you mean but dont let it happen again - Heehee

Aint their someone on here with MySQL experience who could possibly help?? i.e Kebabman, Chet etc