why do i exsist i do not know.why was i but on this earth i do not know.why do girls not like me because im ugly and just offer notting to no one.im such a loving guy who would never mistreat a girl show her all the good things she deserves and never let her down.but i can make all the promises in the world and at the end of the day im just not goodluckin to find the girl of my dreams.maybe i was meant to be alone and not find true happiness.im just so fed up even on this site no one wants to chat to me.people judge a book by its cover but never give whats on the inside a chance.just wish someone would give me a chance

You exist to reproduce.
You are 'a biological replicating machine', in the words of a poet friend of mine!
That's what you were put here to do...
Since you can't do that on your own, you have to find that girl of your dreams
And, just as you are looking for her, she may well be looking for you.
Give her a chance to find you.
Instead of wondering if you will find happiness, the question should be, 'Have I looked long enough or hard enough?'

You know many books became loved despite their covers.
Good luck with your search.
Belief is everything!
Your mantra should be, 'I'm loved and loveable.'

(But not by me... I hasten to add! )
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(Jack Benny)

Here's a little experiment for you:

Create 2 profiles with different sounding names.

In one profile write all your grievances and be as cynical as you like (you might call it realistic). Use a not so good photo.

In your other profile be as sickeningly positive as possible. Don't worry about sounding a bit arrogant because this is only an experiment. Fill out the Q&A section, and check over it to make sure there's no negativity in what you have written. Then use your best photo, with a big grin on your face. Be a bit creative with camera angle if it helps. At the end of the day it's still you.


Now see whether one profile receives more views/messages than the other.

Let us know what happens!

Who says you're ugly? You look absolutely fine! Someday you'll meet the perfect girl for you, and she won't care what you look like, what you sound like or anything else. She'll love you for who you are, not what you look like.

If they don't like you because of the way you look, then its their loss. If they are too shallow to see past the exterior and into the personality, then they aren't worth it.

Keep on going, because your soulmate is out there!

Maisie

Who says you're ugly? You look absolutely fine! Someday you'll meet the perfect girl for you, and she won't care what you look like, what you sound like or anything else. She'll love you for who you are, not what you look like.

If they don't like you because of the way you look, then its their loss. If they are too shallow to see past the exterior and into the personality, then they aren't worth it.

Keep on going, because your soulmate is out there!

Maisie

I’d agree with most of bounderushu’s post, except maybe in the first profile you could include the sum of all your fears and add in all your failings. A little arithmetic always helps and it’s still all you, right? Oh, don’t forget any medical problems – and list the medication!

Using the second profile I think you could produce a third profile which would avoid anything sickening! For ladies of a nervous disposition, or a weak constitution, this is not a good idea. Just stay the right side of positive.
And staying on the confident side of arrogance would be best. Any swaggering should be avoided at all cost. OK, if you are, say, an Olympic Champion – a discreet swagger is permitted.
You should put in some small weakness: are you not human after all?

So for your experiment, you now have 3 profiles. Damn! Why not 10 profiles?
What the hell! It’s free! Use as many as you like, but – as bounderushu says – post in the forums the results of your experiment and include figures for how many views/messages, how many dates/shags, how many you marry, how many charges of bigamy or trigamy, etc!

(Welcome to the forums, Maisie! )
(Did you know there's an Introductions topic? )
Here: http://www.flirtbox.net/anything_else/introductions.html
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Give me golf clubs, fresh air and a beautiful partner, and you can keep the clubs and the fresh air.
(Jack Benny)

Hey! you've not even been here a month yet!! are you being proactive enough? 'cos you need to be on this site......many people have doubts about their appearance being the cause of why they aren't getting the attention from the people they want, but in reality, many a plain looking person gets successful interest in them because of their personality traits.
Can you make somebody laugh from the first sentence you write? If you can, then you're already more likely to get a follow up response than somebody who just looks great....'cos we don't always believe that the pic is always the real person.....Anything revealing the 'poor me' line of thought is instantly off-putting and it prob wouldn't matter what you look like......people who ooze confidence and positive vibes will always attract, despite what they look like.
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Hey. don't feel so sad friend. There's someone out there waiting in the wings for you. Just remember the show isn't over until the fat lady sings. believe me it's true. have faith in yourself and every confidence in your abilities and who you are as a person. Remember that you are unique and special in every way and you will achieve everything in your heart's desires.

Just passing on some words of wisdom for you to give you strength. Use your life to the best ways possible and enjoy everything you do, the company you're in and anything you haven't tried yet, try it.

You have so much going for you so listen to us when we say we believe you have something unique to offer the world. good luck. god bless and have fun.

lew

i know i will find love some day but for now im going to do things that i always wanted to do

Cheering up might help your cause. We all can feel low at times but i is not attractive. Cheer up!

thanks but from now on im going to think positive.no more feeling sorry for myself.i have a new saying (marry It)