theres some pretty sad people in the world that want to harras women on an internet forum! maybe you could reply to them saying that you will be forwarding all further correspondence to the webmaster aka toby?

i always reply and if i dont want to here from them again i tell them the reason...there not looking at my profile...there not my type...too young...so forth and then i say bye bye, have a good day/nite....and then delete and block

I don't suppose there's many men that have to worry about these things on this site. Women definitely have the power...and I've noticed on some profiles, some know it

Well i seldom message much now anyway! Found it to be waste of time! But When i do if i don't recieve a reply i certainly don't pester or keep sending derogatory messages! People i consider to be rude i instantly block. I had some hi jinks recently with someone from Birmingham who even went as far as registering several profiles and swamping me with derogatory messages which i just deleted! But a slight twist to this question? Why do people respond set up a raport then suddenly cease chatting? what is the point?

I think that perhaps somewhere that we could post the nicks of persistent offenders and love pests for all to see would help in putting them off! even using different nicks doesnt stop them from becoming recognisable as the same person! It works on another site i use so why not here?
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

I only ever message once as 99% get ignored anyway. In fact i don't send any messages any more unless i recieve one first. That in itself has saved me hours worth of writing. Maybe i'm a funny bugger but i always reply, even if it's just to say i'm not interested. Mind you, i hate ignorance so treat others as i expect to be treated.