Hello
Probably am making a big deal out of nothing.
As I said I just embarries quite easily' I am trying to do something about it.
I just keep imagining what some people will say if they see it thats all lol
Chris

lol maybe you need to figure out your orientation cuz ur starting to sound extra fruity right now lol

Hi Chris, the easiest way to get rid of it is to embarrass yourself more often really you get used to it... and bbones is right: don’t waste your time bothering - go and write some lovely pms to the girls!

I must admit it's a little daunting sending the first few messages but once you get going it becomes easier. You get used to meeting people who are nice and understanding, and others who are not. But that's the same anywhere surely?

As I said I am trying to do something about it.
I try just to think who cares when I do something which would normally embarries me.
You are right doing things which normally embarries you does help.
And after that oyu think what was I worried about lol
Chris

It's a lottery just like on the street.
Here though you have chance to weed out possible suspects before meeting, if you are clued up enough.

It becomes easier after sending each message. Good luck... so to speak.

I am considering putting a better picture on.
It's getting hard to take one no reply after another.
Chris