Hello
I,m Chris
I don't really know why but I don't get many replies.
I don't really know why' I didn't put a pick on at first but I have now but I still don't get many replies.
So if any of you could tell me why you would not reply to me I would be grateful so I can try to do something about it.
Thankyou
Chris

How about a picture that shows your face, that would be a start.

What are you sending in your messages?

Just saying 'Hi' tends to be ignored by a lot of people.

Also as Snaith says get a closer pic so we can see your face.

Posting on the forum also gives others who post an idea of your personality and sense of humour which any number of us may find attractive. Becoming a poster improves your chances of meeting like-minded people, but can also be a little addictive so beware!

If you send a message like this, just wait for the response you would get from this quiet young lady.

example 1.
Hi Chooch,
you are beautiful, can I jump your bones?

example 2.
Hi Chooch,
I don't have a picture, a bi boring and shy but message me, yeah!

There you go, no reply.

Believe you me, you could have got something far worse for example 1.

Hello
Lol I admit the picture is a little hard to see.
The reason is that you kind of get a jist of what I look like abit but not to much so that people I know will reconise it if they see it.
I,m sorry but they will take the piss alot if they see it.
When i send a message I generally say a few things about me' what i do what I like ect' occationaly a little compliment
I then tend to say so if you wanna chat just send me a message and i'll get back to u.
Chris

u can be fruity and attach a close up of ur face with the messages u send lol tho i know a couple girls who would e-slap you for that type of behaviour

Fair enough if your embrassed... but what if u find a woman.. then start a relationship with her and ur friends/family/work mates ask where u met her? so either way ur not gonna get out of it really. I mean take everyone elses advice i think, just be yourself. Don't always start a messege with

" hi i'm blah blah and i like blah blah hope to chat to u soon " i personally wouldn't reply to that.

But a messege that says " ur pics are funny/great, i've got a blow up doll just like yours" something random and stupid! but don't try too hard, just be upfront and open! ur win points then! xx

Hello
Thanks for the replys.
I have actually met someone on the net before' only told one person I met her over the net.
If I met someone now I probably would not tell anyone at first and then tell family first and then people I trust n so on n so on.
Sorry I'm just one of those people which embarries easily.
Chris

Hi Chris, I would go with jeggaes words, it is not embarrassing these days to be on a site like that, but if you don't believe us, have a look at all these nice girls on that site, girls you wrote messages to, do they feel embarrassed that they are on this site, do they hide? Why would you feel bad then?