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Home >> Anything else >> Why don't I get many replies?
07.10.2008, 09:43 quote
Hello
I,m Chris
I don't really know why but I don't get many replies.
I don't really know why' I didn't put a pick on at first but I have now but I still don't get many replies.
So if any of you could tell me why you would not reply to me I would be grateful so I can try to do something about it.
Thankyou
Chris
07.10.2008, 09:55 quote
What are you sending in your messages?
Just saying 'Hi' tends to be ignored by a lot of people.
Also as Snaith says get a closer pic so we can see your face.
Posting on the forum also gives others who post an idea of your personality and sense of humour which any number of us may find attractive. Becoming a poster improves your chances of meeting like-minded people, but can also be a little addictive so beware!
07.10.2008, 10:01 quote
If you send a message like this, just wait for the response you would get from this quiet young lady.
example 1.
Hi Chooch,
you are beautiful, can I jump your bones?
example 2.
Hi Chooch,
I don't have a picture, a bi boring and shy but message me, yeah!
07.10.2008, 10:12 quote
There you go, no reply.
Believe you me, you could have got something far worse for example 1.
07.10.2008, 10:21 quote
Hello
Lol I admit the picture is a little hard to see.
The reason is that you kind of get a jist of what I look like abit but not to much so that people I know will reconise it if they see it.
I,m sorry but they will take the piss alot if they see it.
When i send a message I generally say a few things about me' what i do what I like ect' occationaly a little compliment
I then tend to say so if you wanna chat just send me a message and i'll get back to u.
Chris
07.10.2008, 10:29 quote
u can be fruity and attach a close up of ur face with the messages u send lol tho i know a couple girls who would e-slap you for that type of behaviour
07.10.2008, 14:18 quote
| chrisfrombris wrote: |
| Hello
Lol I admit the picture is a little hard to see. The reason is that you kind of get a jist of what I look like abit but not to much so that people I know will reconise it if they see it. I,m sorry but they will take the piss alot if they see it. When i send a message I generally say a few things about me' what i do what I like ect' occationaly a little compliment I then tend to say so if you wanna chat just send me a message and i'll get back to u. Chris |
Well if they recognise you, then they are using the site as well.
At the end of the day you have to be yourself. Type what ever comes in to your head, with out too much thought, read the girls profile and make a comment about it, and most of all try and be funny, works every time ......
07.10.2008, 14:44 quote
| funkychick1 wrote: | ||
Well if they recognise you, then they are using the site as well. At the end of the day you have to be yourself. Type what ever comes in to your head, with out too much thought, read the girls profile and make a comment about it, and most of all try and be funny, works every time ...... |
Thats a very good point.
I'm just abit imbarressed about it thats all.
So can you send a private message on here with a different pick attached.
I,ve got some picks which you can see me alot more clearer but I wouldn't want to put them for everyone to see.
But I wouldn't mind attaching them to a private messege.
Chris
07.10.2008, 14:54 quote
| snaithman wrote: |
| There you go, no reply.
Believe you me, you could have got something far worse for example 1. |
I had just stepped out for a walk to town, but example one would have got a reply. Of sorts.
07.10.2008, 14:57 quote
| chrisfrombris wrote: | ||||
Thats a very good point. I'm just abit imbarressed about it thats all. So can you send a private message on here with a different pick attached. I,ve got some picks which you can see me alot more clearer but I wouldn't want to put them for everyone to see. But I wouldn't mind attaching them to a private messege. Chris |
No you cant send a pic, put can have as many pics as you like on your profile, no one can see them until they actualy look at your profile though, so thats just as good if you dont want anyone seeing you on here.
07.10.2008, 16:01 quote
Fair enough if your embrassed... but what if u find a woman.. then start a relationship with her and ur friends/family/work mates ask where u met her? so either way ur not gonna get out of it really. I mean take everyone elses advice i think, just be yourself. Don't always start a messege with
" hi i'm blah blah and i like blah blah hope to chat to u soon " i personally wouldn't reply to that.
But a messege that says " ur pics are funny/great, i've got a blow up doll just like yours" something random and stupid! but don't try too hard, just be upfront and open! ur win points then! xx
07.10.2008, 16:17 quote
| chrisfrombris wrote: |
| Hello
Lol I admit the picture is a little hard to see. The reason is that you kind of get a jist of what I look like abit but not to much so that people I know will reconise it if they see it. I,m sorry but they will take the piss alot if they see it. When i send a message I generally say a few things about me' what i do what I like ect' occationaly a little compliment I then tend to say so if you wanna chat just send me a message and i'll get back to u. Chris |
If they take the piss so what? everyone comes on this sort of site nowadays. I wouldn't worry about that if I was you. There was a stigma a few years ago, but not so much now.
I agree with a lot of what curvycloxx says. You are better off keeping you first message short and sweet, and end with a question that she just has to answer.
07.10.2008, 18:09 quote
Hello
Thanks for the replys.
I have actually met someone on the net before' only told one person I met her over the net.
If I met someone now I probably would not tell anyone at first and then tell family first and then people I trust n so on n so on.
Sorry I'm just one of those people which embarries easily.
Chris
07.10.2008, 22:31 quote
Hi Chris, I would go with jeggaes words, it is not embarrassing these days to be on a site like that, but if you don't believe us, have a look at all these nice girls on that site, girls you wrote messages to, do they feel embarrassed that they are on this site, do they hide? Why would you feel bad then?
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