I'm not for it .... its just makes me feel really old when i go clubbing ... havent been since i was 30 (ish) .. would rather go to a lively pub where you can dance if you like...

Kevin posted this because we had been talking about it he loves all that dancy trancy francy music .. (or whatever you call it) heehee

The objective when you are under 25 is generally to chase girls, party hard, and drink a lot. From 25-30 you become a little bit more sophisticated, but the objective remains the same. Between 30-35 you become an observer rather than a participant. From 35 + in most conventional clubs you are a leper.

Of course, if you are a single male and 35+ in a lap dancing bar you will be the norm.

The realistic single male 35+ recognises that if it is sex he is after, then by that age he knows where to go. If love is the objective, then chocolate is the best option.

If there is another agenda or objective, then the intelligent single male 35+ will probably be able to see that it is unlikely to be a club or pub which will help him achieve that objective.

Indeed, he will probably find that nobody will help him meet any objectives at all. He will have to become completely self reliant, or self destructive. It is virtually impossible to be completely self reliant, and therefore self destructive is quite a common route for single males 35+. (however in the area where I grew up most of the self destructive single males exploded between the ages of 16-24)