can't believe the intrest.
nice to know i'm not the only one
but still havn't heard from the younger guy why they like the older girls
do we remind them of their mothers and their just trying to get back in the womb!!!!!!!!!!!!

I like guys of any age really, but I had no idea in the beginning when I came on fbx, that the messages I was getting from the very young men were actually serious!!
25 yrs younger seems to be the lowest I can feel comfortable with though, but it depends on so many factors really.
As I've said before on similar threads, I don't like to be with anyone where I feel like I'm their daughter or their mum. I do have a preference for men a bit younger and I like colourful personalities, and so many guys of my age are often too set in their ways and are more likely to have a hidden 'significant other'.
I'm often approached by guys more than 30 yrs younger, not just on the web either....... I find it hard to get my head around such a big age gap and do ask the Y questions but there are more complex reasons beyond these obvious ones, mothering, sexual experience, financial, or an easy ride to the UK.........

Older women are less inhibited, and the idea of the cougar effect where older women chase after a younger man is flattering. I guess there is an impression that older women would be less clingy as well. (im just being honest here). Also women reach their sexual peak in their thirties and ooze sexuality for the next decade and a half. That would be certain to attract a lot of men both young and old.

Also most women age gracefully and beauty does not diminish with age, so looks don't play the negative effect you think they might.

I dont understand why u ladies on here have such a problem with age?? im 21 years old and have trecently ended a relationship with a 53 year old... yes some one nearly twice the age of my mum who is only 36.

No i didnt mean he should be worrying whether or not his mum approves, but rather, i wondered what his mother might feel about him dating a woman old enough to be his gran, seeing as its a little more at the extreme end of the age scale. I am sure such an age difference would put added stress on the relationship, as you would always get people who like to judge and point the finger, which is fine if you can cope with that, but some people cant and let it get to them.

As i have mentioned before on here, between the age of 30 to 32 i was dating a girl who was 19 when we first started dating, her mother absolutely hated me, even though she didn't know me, she just hated me before she even met me purely because of my age. I can understand she might not have like the age difference, but my ex girlfriends father actually got on rather well with me and was a really nice bloke, so it was two opposite ends of the scale with her parents attitude towards me.

My daughter has only ever been with older guys, her present boyfriend of 2+ years is 10 years older. I've never had a problem with that but she would have had a problem with me having a boyfriend younger than hers, but sees things differently these days, partly, I believe from the influences of her mates.