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29.06.2006, 20:03 quote

Anonymous

I'm sick of so called friends that turn out to be total bitches.

One of my 'friends' has been going behind my back calling me a slut and stuff. It isn't very nice at all.
I can't think of anything that I may have done to upset her, yet she's saying all of this crap about me.
I'd understand if I had said stuff about her, too, but I would NEVER do that to a friend.

I actually thought she was a nice person. She was there for me when I broke up with my ex. Now she's telling everybody everything I ever told her.

UT Evil or Very Mad

 

29.06.2006, 20:12 quote

Anonymous

true friends are hard to find hun... dont mistake aquaintences for friends.

it was a hard lesson well learned and now you know who your friends are (whoever informed you of what she was doing) and you know who's not.

i think there'd be only one or two of my friends who know absolutely everything there is to know about me.... and i like it that way. trust is not easy.. specially when its misplaced.

relax, smile and ignore her... afterall those who know you know her lies for what they are. and no matter that she is telling ppl about ur breakup... everyone has had similar experiences with exes and they understand.

remember this.. you're the top goss now.. but next week nobody will remember.

 

29.06.2006, 20:56 quote

cuteinnocentguy
cuteinnocentguy Joined: 23 Jun 2006 Posts: 78 Location: United Kingdom, England, Bristol
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aww sweetie friends like that aren't worth having...when someone does something like that to me, it upsets me to start with but then i realise they have done me a favour by showing me what they are like and getting the hell out of my life.

it's their loss not to have you as a friend when you are so lovely, and noone remembers gossip after it has gone around everyone once. just concentrate on finding happiness for yourself and if their life is sad enough to have to bitch about you, then they will be the one left alone at the end of the day *big cuddles*

 

30.06.2006, 00:45 quote

Anonymous

The last two of my best mates move to cardiff on Sat morning, and are packing all day tom..err today. So my life's going to suck for the next few weeks. no girl, no friends, no money, no drivers icence.

ahh well there's always films to keep me company.

 

30.06.2006, 00:53 quote

Anonymous

out of all my life i can count on one hand my best friends, working in the casino business, i have thot i had made true friends, but once they or u have moved on to another hotel or job u find out who ur true friends are.
sorry to hear your loss laura, but it sounds like she was not a true friend, put it behind u and move on, u will know who your true friends are in the long run

the always caring aluria

 

30.06.2006, 09:54 quote

Anonymous

almostpurrrfect wrote:
true friends are hard to find hun... dont mistake aquaintences for friends.

it was a hard lesson well learned and now you know who your friends are (whoever informed you of what she was doing) and you know who's not.

i think there'd be only one or two of my friends who know absolutely everything there is to know about me.... and i like it that way. trust is not easy.. specially when its misplaced.

relax, smile and ignore her... afterall those who know you know her lies for what they are. and no matter that she is telling ppl about ur breakup... everyone has had similar experiences with exes and they understand.

remember this.. you're the top goss now.. but next week nobody will remember.


Well we have known each other since we were 14. I have never known her to do something like this Sad

 

30.06.2006, 09:57 quote

Anonymous

cuteinnocentguy wrote:
aww sweetie friends like that aren't worth having...when someone does something like that to me, it upsets me to start with but then i realise they have done me a favour by showing me what they are like and getting the hell out of my life.

it's their loss not to have you as a friend when you are so lovely, and noone remembers gossip after it has gone around everyone once. just concentrate on finding happiness for yourself and if their life is sad enough to have to bitch about you, then they will be the one left alone at the end of the day *big cuddles*


I hope they will forget about it soon.

I had issues trusting people before this...now I don't think I can trust another person ever again..Sad

 

30.06.2006, 09:58 quote

Anonymous

welshbreed wrote:
The last two of my best mates move to cardiff on Sat morning, and are packing all day tom..err today. So my life's going to suck for the next few weeks. no girl, no friends, no money, no drivers icence.

ahh well there's always films to keep me company.


Sorry to hear about your friends moving.

Ah yes, films always seem to help with boredom and loneliness!

 

30.06.2006, 09:59 quote

Anonymous

Aluria wrote:
out of all my life i can count on one hand my best friends, working in the casino business, i have thot i had made true friends, but once they or u have moved on to another hotel or job u find out who ur true friends are.
sorry to hear your loss laura, but it sounds like she was not a true friend, put it behind u and move on, u will know who your true friends are in the long run

the always caring aluria


Thank you.

I don't make friends very easily. I'm not exactly the most socialable person in the world!

 

30.06.2006, 10:05 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
Sorry to hear about your friends moving.

Ah yes, films always seem to help with boredom and loneliness!


Yeah me too. One of 'em I'd known for about 17 yrs and I'm only 19. he is a true friend. His missis I've only know for 2 years about? but she's a good friend also now.

 

30.06.2006, 10:11 quote

Anonymous

welshbreed wrote:


Yeah me too. One of 'em I'd known for about 17 yrs and I'm only 19. he is a true friend. His missis I've only know for 2 years about? but she's a good friend also now.


Wow, that is a long time.

 

30.06.2006, 11:04 quote

PrincessTamz
PrincessTamz Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 470 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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I'm really sorry to hear about your 'friend' Laura. I've spent my whole life being let down by people I trusted as friends.... I find it extremely difficult now and rarely get close to people, I cant take the disappointment.

Try to rise above it, you know in your heart what the truth is. Just try not to retaliate, let her burn herself with all this crap, if anyone says anything to you, just say your disappointed with the way she's acting and you thought she was a friend. Just dont join in with the name calling etc, youre obviously better than that and they'll see her for what she is eventually.

I know it doesnt help with your upset of potentially losing a friend again thats only something that will happen with time. Yar good

 

30.06.2006, 11:06 quote

Anonymous

PrincessTamz wrote:
I'm really sorry to hear about your 'friend' Laura. I've spent my whole life being let down by people I trusted as friends.... I find it extremely difficult now and rarely get close to people, I cant take the disappointment.

Try to rise above it, you know in your heart what the truth is. Just try not to retaliate, let her burn herself with all this crap, if anyone says anything to you, just say your disappointed with the way she's acting and you thought she was a friend. Just dont join in with the name calling etc, youre obviously better than that and they'll see her for what she is eventually.

I know it doesnt help with your upset of potentially losing a friend again thats only something that will happen with time. Yar good


I don't mind that she's calling me a slut and all that, because I know i'm not a slut, as well as everybody else that knows me. It's just her telling everybody things that I told her in confidence that bother me.

 
 
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