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31.07.2007, 19:20 quote

Anonymous

so your new love turnes to you in bed and says, ....how many women have you slept with?. Do you tell her or lie?

 

31.07.2007, 19:21 quote

kebabman
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Leglover227 wrote:
so your new love turnes to you in bed and says, ....how many women have you slept with?. Do you tell her or lie?


I always try to ask that question first Smile And of course honesty is the best policy...
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31.07.2007, 19:22 quote

Anonymous

I have no reason to lie. Tell her.

 

31.07.2007, 19:31 quote

Anonymous

it usually leads to what are you thinking? ....and i want to say ....if i wanted to tell you id open my fucking mouth wouldnt i

 

31.07.2007, 19:40 quote

Anonymous

Leglover227 wrote:
so your new love turnes to you in bed and says, ....how many women have you slept with?. Do you tell her or lie?


Start snoring Laughing

Honesty. But I always first point out that much of my life was transient (until 10 years ago) and therefore included a lot of short term 'relationships'. I know it's a lame excuse, but it's true.

What I'm going to say next may sound really cheesy, but it is also true. It might sound like a pacifier after having been honest about the number of previous lovers, but it isn't. I can honestly say that every lover I have had has been better than the last one. And I have no problem in saying that with a straight face either. The last person I slept with is THE best lover that I have EVER had. Ever. In my life.

 

31.07.2007, 19:46 quote

Anonymous

darkhorse58 wrote:
Leglover227 wrote:
so your new love turnes to you in bed and says, ....how many women have you slept with?. Do you tell her or lie?


Start snoring Laughing

Honesty. But I always first point out that much of my life was transient (until 10 years ago) and therefore included a lot of short term 'relationships'. I know it's a lame excuse, but it's true.

What I'm going to say next may sound really cheesy, but it is also true. It might sound like a pacifier after having been honest about the number of previous lovers, but it isn't. I can honestly say that every lover I have had has been better than the last one. And I have no problem in saying that with a straight face either. The last person I slept with is THE best lover that I have EVER had. Ever. In my life.


im feeling the force yoda Very Happy

 

31.07.2007, 19:52 quote

minijellytot

If the boot was on the opposite foot i'd LIE LIE and lie some more blokes are the same as women, be very resourceful with the truth. In other words lower the number

 

31.07.2007, 19:57 quote

Anonymous

Leglover227 wrote:
darkhorse58 wrote:
Leglover227 wrote:
so your new love turnes to you in bed and says, ....how many women have you slept with?. Do you tell her or lie?


Start snoring Laughing

Honesty. But I always first point out that much of my life was transient (until 10 years ago) and therefore included a lot of short term 'relationships'. I know it's a lame excuse, but it's true.

What I'm going to say next may sound really cheesy, but it is also true. It might sound like a pacifier after having been honest about the number of previous lovers, but it isn't. I can honestly say that every lover I have had has been better than the last one. And I have no problem in saying that with a straight face either. The last person I slept with is THE best lover that I have EVER had. Ever. In my life.


im feeling the force yoda Very Happy



Are you mocking me Luke Skywalker?

In addition to what I said, I should also say that if you can say tell your current lover that she/he is the best lover you have ever had and REALLY mean it, the number of previous lovers that you admit to is (hopefully) largely irrelevant. I want my current lover to know that she IS the most significant person in my life, and will say so. People are supposed to move on, so being with a lover who is 'worse' than the last one is taking a step backwards. I always see every new relationship as a step forward, both physically and mentally.

Here is the drawback to the original thread question - that question usually leads to comparisons to previous lovers. That is a strict no-no. First rule of every relationship should be "Never, ever, ask or answer the comparison question"

Here ends todays sermon.
Amen

 

31.07.2007, 19:58 quote

Anonymous

in all honesty i never ever ask that question, .....im with her now and thats all that counts, ...an in return i dont want to know either. Hovever i keep getting asked lol

 

31.07.2007, 20:01 quote

Bliss23
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Leglover227 wrote:
it usually leads to what are you thinking? ....and i want to say ....if i wanted to tell you id open my fucking mouth wouldnt i


I'll second that. use it myself. =) Xcept I actually say "If I wanted to tell ya........." .
What are ya thinkin...Such a stupid question..

 

31.07.2007, 20:01 quote

Anonymous

Leglover227 wrote:
in all honesty i never ever ask that question, .....im with her now and thats all that counts, ...an in return i dont want to know either.


Then you have learnt well young leglover Laughing

 

31.07.2007, 20:02 quote

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Are you mocking me Luke Skywalker?




not at all! good words

 

31.07.2007, 20:03 quote

kebabman
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Leglover227 wrote:
it usually leads to what are you thinking? ....and i want to say ....if i wanted to tell you id open my fucking mouth wouldnt i


I missed this post the first time round, made me laugh though, it's very true...
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31.07.2007, 20:03 quote

Anonymous

Leglover227 wrote:
Quote:



Are you mocking me Luke Skywalker?




not at all! good words


hehe.....wisdom comes with age (and many lovers ) Hmmm, I should put that in the Quotes thread.....

 

31.07.2007, 20:05 quote

Anonymous

kebabman wrote:
Leglover227 wrote:
it usually leads to what are you thinking? ....and i want to say ....if i wanted to tell you id open my fucking mouth wouldnt i


I missed this post the first time round, made me laugh though, it's very true...




grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr why do they ask that? ......every fooking time!

 
 
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