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15.04.2008, 19:32 quote

lilacrose

mulder83 wrote:
I had a bad time of it a few years back after having my drink spiked.I took a really bad reaction which spiralled into panic attacks and depression.there came a point about 3 or 4 months down the line were I wanted to end the thoughts but managed to get in touch with my mum who works at the edinburgh royal infirmary so she got me seen by a shrink who recommended a different course of medication to what i was taking.thankfully they worked better.

My confidence never came back after that and ive had the odd relapse but im as close to 100% as i have been since it started nearly 5 year back.
I doubt id have ever went throught wi the suicide as i couldnt do that to my friends and family.


Gosh Mulder, I am sorry. My son had his drink spiked with rohypnol and heroin and he nearly died (had his heart restarted at the scene by the paramedics)....wont go into detail, but having struggled all his life with depression, this did not help, which is why he ended up attempting suicide again a while back. I do feel for you. xx

 

15.04.2008, 19:36 quote

mulder83

lilacrose wrote:
mulder83 wrote:
I had a bad time of it a few years back after having my drink spiked.I took a really bad reaction which spiralled into panic attacks and depression.there came a point about 3 or 4 months down the line were I wanted to end the thoughts but managed to get in touch with my mum who works at the edinburgh royal infirmary so she got me seen by a shrink who recommended a different course of medication to what i was taking.thankfully they worked better.

My confidence never came back after that and ive had the odd relapse but im as close to 100% as i have been since it started nearly 5 year back.
I doubt id have ever went throught wi the suicide as i couldnt do that to my friends and family.


Gosh Mulder, I am sorry. My son had his drink spiked with rohypnol and heroin and he nearly died (had his heart restarted at the scene by the paramedics)....wont go into detail, but having struggled all his life with depression, this did not help, which is why he ended up attempting suicide again a while back. I do feel for you. xx


sorry to hear that rose.i was stupid enough to leave drinks on a table in dodgy club while i went to loo.should ave known better.im better these days and its probably sped my maturing as an adult and helped me see things in a different perspective

 

15.04.2008, 19:41 quote

lilacrose

Yup. Steve was only 15. He has aspergers and trusted EVERYBODY - didnt understand the concept of 'not being nice' - it was a so-called 'friend' (they all closed ranks after....) having a laugh - he was an easy target....trouble is, now he trusts NO ONE. All very sad.

 

15.04.2008, 19:42 quote

mulder83

lilacrose wrote:
Yup. Steve was only 15. He has aspergers and trusted EVERYBODY - didnt understand the concept of 'not being nice' - it was a so-called 'friend' (they all closed ranks after....) having a laugh - he was an easy target....trouble is, now he trusts NO ONE. All very sad.


that is sad.I dont understand why people wpuld want to do that? Mad

 

15.04.2008, 19:53 quote

70

Aww this is such a sad and difficult thread, but it's good to see how people have coped and may offer some inspiration to others or make someone think again if they thought spiking drinks was funny.

Takes more courage to live.

 

15.04.2008, 20:02 quote

mulder83

its good to chat bout it even after such a long spell.i was very wary of telling people when it first happened and tried to keep myself busy by trying to do the usual stuff drinkin seeing friends ect but that made me worse.

 

15.04.2008, 20:02 quote

moose666

It's a bit too personal for me, really, this sort of thing. Not something I would talk about in a public forum on the internet.

 

15.04.2008, 20:09 quote

annmarie5988

Well personally never thought about it ............. the reason being my borther attempted when is was 16 ......... because he was afraid to tell his family he is Gay .......... and my Dad actually committed suicide when he was 38, 17 years ago, because my Mum had an affair ............ so no i have never and would never contemplate it because i know the damage it does to your family ......... x

 

15.04.2008, 20:11 quote

lilacrose

That's what I like about these forums Moose, we can choose not to post in which ever we dont want to be involved in. Not like in real life conversations when you got to either awkwardly steer the topic elsewhere, or tell the other person outright. Yep, that's defo the best bit about having lots of threads here - for me!

 

15.04.2008, 20:16 quote

romanogypsy32

I sort of wish I had not posted this subject as the subject matter has had such an impact on so many.So I apologise if this has upset anybody please feel free to ask for it to be shut down.

 

15.04.2008, 20:25 quote

annmarie5988

romanogypsy32 wrote:
I sort of wish I had not posted this subject as the subject matter has had such an impact on so many.So I apologise if this has upset anybody please feel free to ask for it to be shut down.


Dont be silly ............. people can either choose to reply or not .......... its not just a forum for kiss chasing and playing silly games .......... we can talk about real life as well ............ Very Happy

 

15.04.2008, 20:30 quote

megalone

I think that it is a rather good subject for discussion really.
As long as we all don't start discussing how we ARE going do it, or start discussing doing a mass suicide attempt, then keep it going.

Even I am beginning to get a little bored of the 'kiss chasing and playing silly games' (as AM kindly put it).
I do think though that there is room for both serious subjects AND the 'junk' too, I'd like to see everyone happy on here......

Not that my opinion counts here, my superpowers don't work in this section Crying or Very sad

 

15.04.2008, 20:30 quote

70

No I don't think it should be closed, as lilacrose said, people can choose whether or not to post, or just read.

I'm not a believer of 'burying stuff under the carpet' this thread may help someone somewhere. Confronting difficult issues takes courage and I respect so much those people who have shared their experiences.

 

15.04.2008, 20:34 quote

klee1986

romanogypsy32 wrote:
I sort of wish I had not posted this subject as the subject matter has had such an impact on so many.So I apologise if this has upset anybody please feel free to ask for it to be shut down.
Noo dont be daft - its a good topic to talk about & actualy it may even be good for some people to chat about these things to peeps who have experienced it.
soo keep it up hunnie - people can only just reply or ignore it

 

15.04.2008, 20:36 quote

romanogypsy32

Well thanks for the response people.

 
 
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