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11.05.2008, 19:23
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coyotequeen

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Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Highland

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I am 20 and my partner 27. We have been together for over a year. I chaeated at the start of the realationship and he uses this as his excuse for going back to the drugs he blames me. We always argue now and i stoped drinking for him. Everytime i ask him to stop taking it he says i need to take it as you have driving me to it.

He already has a son to his previouse partner and i dont think he wants children where as i would love to settle down and have a family. i just dont know what to do.

i would ask my friends but they already dont like him and would be happy if anyone had any opinions

ashley
 
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11.05.2008, 20:06
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PasleptSiekare

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Location: United Kingdom, England, Nottinghamshire

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The answer should be clear...


Get rid of him.

The fact that he's blaming you for him taking drugs says it all. You stopped drinking for him - so surely he must be willing to give up the drugs for you.

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11.05.2008, 23:08
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jameslore

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Joined: 02 May 2008
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Location: United Kingdom, England, London

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If you cheat on a releatiobship at any time it's a bad sign and to do it at the start well it doesn't put the whole thing I a good light.

Stack up what you get out of the releationship against what you don't.

Being in something may be a way to stop you being alone but it's far more damaging in the end.
 
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12.05.2008, 06:06
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jeggae
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Problem with these sites is you only hear one side.

Did you really stop drinking for him?

A women cheating on a man, especially if he really likes her, is probably the worse thing that can happen to a man. Probably worse then for a women, but obviously that is highly debatable. It can be hard for some men to take, and get over.

The fact you are on a dating site, for whatever reason, might not good. But that depends why you are on here. So maybe he should be getting rid of you. You've only been together for just over a year.

Sorry if this seems harsh, but its what coming over to me from what you said, and it doesn't sound like a partnership made in heaven.
 
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