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26.08.2006, 08:23 quote

idontlikelongnic
idontlikelongnic Joined: 15 Aug 2006 Posts: 6 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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What would you do , sleep with her/his best friend ,go to dating frenzy or simply take a break .Work hard not to think about it .
I have got my own solution for break ups .Copy is newer as original so I will not and do not get back together.I do give a chance before break up if that chance is ignored or left unused that is it you dont have respect of the person you are with.
And as it happens most of the time they want to come back.My answer is simple .You got it wrong despite the chance I have given you and for me to take you back would be going against my believs and probably geting hurt again.
I call it CLEAR CUT.
What are yours wiev's

 

26.08.2006, 13:23 quote

Anonymous

If i was single and knew i was just on the rebound, id keep myself well away of certain situations, its not really fair on the other person if they do end up genuinely liking you,and if the person is on the rebound too then you yourself will feel used (when u feel happily single again) but i say that mainly as ive had someone do that to me lol

 

26.08.2006, 15:54 quote

Anonymous

I always take a break to avoid the rebound situation.....although I didn't plan on the break being this long, if the situation lasts any longer my ribbed condoms will be out of date and the frozen peas will become mushy.

 

26.08.2006, 16:53 quote

Anonymous

always give the wounds time to heal, make sure u know yourself and where u are going, looking for sex can end up being a rebound thing to so be careful on that part....and yes when its a long time and the condoms are becoming stale and peas mushy i think its time to reconsider lol

 

28.08.2006, 10:08 quote

kathy923
kathy923 Joined: 24 Apr 2006 Posts: 454 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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i always think i'll take a break, but end up having a one night stand, i know its naughtyy, but it cheers me up for about 15mins!!!

 

28.08.2006, 10:33 quote

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kathy923 wrote:
i always think i'll take a break, but end up having a one night stand, i know its naughtyy, but it cheers me up for about 15mins!!!


15 mins! he's obviously not doing something right Twisted Evil

 

28.08.2006, 11:13 quote

kathy923
kathy923 Joined: 24 Apr 2006 Posts: 454 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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Ringer2 wrote:
kathy923 wrote:
i always think i'll take a break, but end up having a one night stand, i know its naughtyy, but it cheers me up for about 15mins!!!


15 mins! he's obviously not doing something right Twisted Evil


no, it seems all the guys i've met recently dont do it right...

 

28.08.2006, 16:50 quote

Anonymous

It takes me longer than 15 minutes to put a condom on these days...its either lack of practice or they're like wagon wheels...I swear they were bigger when I was younger..such a squeeze to get a condom on I have to stretch it over a rolling pin first to make it bigger.

 

28.08.2006, 17:01 quote

ScotsDave
ScotsDave Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 1073 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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kathy923 wrote:
Ringer2 wrote:
kathy923 wrote:
i always think i'll take a break, but end up having a one night stand, i know its naughtyy, but it cheers me up for about 15mins!!!


15 mins! he's obviously not doing something right Twisted Evil


no, it seems all the guys i've met recently dont do it right...




upside down thats not right you know Laughing

 

16.09.2006, 14:27 quote

ladytracexx
ladytracexx Joined: 20 May 2006 Posts: 3465 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cornwall
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idontlikelongnic wrote:
What would you do , sleep with her/his best friend ,go to dating frenzy or simply take a break .Work hard not to think about it .
I have got my own solution for break ups .Copy is newer as original so I will not and do not get back together.I do give a chance before break up if that chance is ignored or left unused that is it you dont have respect of the person you are with.
And as it happens most of the time they want to come back.My answer is simple .You got it wrong despite the chance I have given you and for me to take you back would be going against my believs and probably geting hurt again.
I call it CLEAR CUT.
What are yours wiev's



I have a friend who due to the breakdown of his marriage, met and moved in with another women. This only to be founded as a rebound and something he now regrets and is now in a very difficult position. He moved in with this lady only two months after his divorce.... and he moved HER into his home! now realizing that he does not love her... and that really he just see'e her as a friend rather than a lover and partner he is in a turmoil, as the lady is deeply in love with him... but is not resipricated by himself..... now in a postion he knows they should part....but! She is in HIS HOUSE!
He knows he is going to hurt her as he has met someone else..... and is sad that he did not give himself time and space before jumping out of the frying pan into the fire......
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18.09.2006, 08:52 quote

Aradon
Aradon Joined: 10 Aug 2006 Posts: 3090 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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Um, non of the above crossed my mind. I just wanted to die and so proceeded in the usual manner.

Thankfully I didn't manage it.

I'm now adopting the "throw yourself into something" approach, so i've upped my karate training and have gone back to college!
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18.09.2006, 09:19 quote

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Aradon wrote:
Um, non of the above crossed my mind. I just wanted to die and so proceeded in the usual manner.

Thankfully I didn't manage it.

I'm now adopting the "throw yourself into something" approach, so i've upped my karate training and have gone back to college!


Good on you Aradon

 

18.09.2006, 11:59 quote

saintsfan
saintsfan Joined: 09 Jun 2006 Posts: 420 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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Just do what Morillo does and buy a blow up doll.

 

18.09.2006, 14:14 quote

ChiefOHara
ChiefOHara Joined: 11 Feb 2006 Posts: 2853 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork
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I get mouldy rotten drunk, and i don't mean this in a joking way. When something like that happens i need to cry and i find that this method helps me get out a lot of the emotions i need to deal with out. Obviously i don't cry at a bar, but it provideds the kind of atmosphere that can be reflective, and people can see when you want to be left alone and do so. When i get back afterwards, thats when i allow the feelings to seep through. Its kinda like a big purge.

As for rebounds, it only happened once and the guilt wasn't worth it, After i broke up with someone i had a date 4 days later, and it suprised my ex and id dare say upset her no end.

 
 
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